"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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here's the secret

blueline

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be a little bit prettier than the girls you get into relationships with.

that's the secret to relationships with all other things including assumed decent game considered. you cannot be a fat and keep even a 7 unless you have some other factor like money and social status to intervene. however, she's always going to be wanting to get ****ed by that jacked guy, so you won't give her everything she wants, therefore she'll probably cheat.

if you want to just **** a bunch of girls, it always helps to be just a bit better looking than them. however, given the different definition of success in this pursuit, this is where the ugly can definitely succeed with girls physically out of his league. good luck keeping her with simply game, though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
 

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terran2k said:
be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
:woo: :woo:

+1
 

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terran2k said:
be prettier than the girl? you know what, you go ahead and enjoy your own sub par advice, and the sub par life style that it will bring to you. maybe one day you'll stop thinking like a freakin woman.
Everybody likes to give advice and **** these days, even guys that don't got their **** together.
:flowers:

Let me buy you a beer
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ummm... John Hamm is an exceedingly attractive man. If you're 5'6 and look like Pee Wee Herman you're probably not going to be able to put that one off. Imagine Paul Reubens in that scene.

I agree with the OP. Date down, if you want to have some good times. If you date up, you will be paying through the nose and doing all the work.

Best yet, find a chick who looks ok but has super low self esteem.
 
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