theres a woman who I have become good friends with (yep we have all herd this before) shes beautiful and has it all but this summer she was to be wed. and found out her to be hubby was sleeping with his x and over the course of the last few months have developed feelings for her beyond "friends" but to her thats all I am, and I dont mind that, I happen to think that staying her friend that there is a very good chance for me to get with her I do know that it is too soon for that to happen but none the less think it could down the road. she does know that I am attracted to her and that I like her alot. what would you do any help is appreciated.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
heres the deal
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