"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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chazzz

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theres a woman who I have become good friends with (yep we have all herd this before) shes beautiful and has it all but this summer she was to be wed. and found out her to be hubby was sleeping with his x and over the course of the last few months have developed feelings for her beyond "friends" but to her thats all I am, and I dont mind that, I happen to think that staying her friend that there is a very good chance for me to get with her I do know that it is too soon for that to happen but none the less think it could down the road. she does know that I am attracted to her and that I like her alot. what would you do any help is appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thefonz

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hmmm, quite an unusual situation here.......i personally would send her some flowers in the mail....better yet, i would deliver them in person....then i'd write a note asking her out to dinner with me sometime at the fanciest restraunt i can afford.
 

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did that

we have gone to lunch at a nice resterant as well as a pro football game (she knows football big plus) she split the cost of the game $200 a piece for the seats but the friend thing is still there what do I do?
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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My heart bleeds for you, oh chump of frustrating averageness.

Get a pair, or better yet a girlfriend. Get her thinking about you in more than a platonic sense and casually let her know you're a sexual animal as well.

Above all, and if you can do nothing else... READ THE BIBLE!!!!

-Cyrano
 

DonJuanQuixote

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Originally posted by thefonz
hmmm, quite an unusual situation here.......i personally would send her some flowers in the mail....better yet, i would deliver them in person....then i'd write a note asking her out to dinner with me sometime at the fanciest restraunt i can afford.
I'm sorry you didnt get the sarcasm in that post!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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