"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Here's how I see it: 2 ways to get laid .. which would you choose?

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I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WRONG

There is a hidden Third way. Next time you're at the bar sitting next to a girl, point across the room and be like:

"Man, why is she wearing that?!?"
(When the girl inevitably looks over, slip some roofies in her drink)
Wait a couple mins........wait for it.......waaiiitt.......

Boo-Yah! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: You're in.

Please, don't flatter me with your praise, it only embarrasses me.
 

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actively going out and gaming IS making them come to you except you have to demonstrate your value. Famous people already ahve demonstrated their value.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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anointed said:
actively going out and gaming IS making them come to you except you have to demonstrate your value. Famous people already ahve demonstrated their value.
Its really not the same thing.

And I'd much rather do it the 'rockstar' way...I mean who the hell actually enjoys working on seduction tactics to get sex?

Good job I'm in 2 bands and have a chance to be that rockstar :D
 

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
Who is the milfhunter guy?
 

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

Well... since I'm not a rock star or a movie star. I'd have to say #1.
 

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Rex Man said:
WRONG

There is a hidden Third way. Next time you're at the bar sitting next to a girl, point across the room and be like:

"Man, why is she wearing that?!?"
(When the girl inevitably looks over, slip some roofies in her drink)
Wait a couple mins........wait for it.......waaiiitt.......

Boo-Yah! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: You're in.

Please, don't flatter me with your praise, it only embarrasses me.
touche.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
Option 2 and it's not even close. Option 2 people get the girls doing the things they love. You talk to them about spending hours in the field, and this method or that method, and they will laugh out loud. While the Option 1 guys have to make pick-up like an obsession, sometimes, even an addiction.
 

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qweretyuiopas said:
Who is the milfhunter guy?
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.


falcon - I agree. after reading "The Game" I realized how much wasted time that was on behalf of all those people. still, I'm curious about others' opinions.
 

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The problem is - option2 guys get girls doing something they love.

What if doing what you love is economics? or computer programming? I'm sorry but it's going to be much harder to get girls through your love of computer programming than it is through your love of being a movie star.
 

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md3sign said:
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.
They are paid "actresses" man. He doesn't just walk up to random broads on the street and talk them into doing porn.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
option 3..go out and meet real life women with confidence
 

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That's why I'm an aspiring rockstar actually.
 

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Go out and show your value ;) Good BL & dressing & Social proof gets you there easily. No need to go to extremes.
 

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I'm not talking about extremes. I mentioned extremes to differentiate between the two types (and in fact they have parts of each other .. for example the milfhunter dude now has a reputation that precedes him, which makes laying chicks easier e.g. the domino effect).
 

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md3sign said:
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.


falcon - I agree. after reading "The Game" I realized how much wasted time that was on behalf of all those people. still, I'm curious about others' opinions.
O ok. I saw it, but if its a porn site I doubt they just random chicks they get paid for that. Male pornstars dont count
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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