"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here's how I see it: 2 ways to get laid .. which would you choose?

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I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rex Man

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WRONG

There is a hidden Third way. Next time you're at the bar sitting next to a girl, point across the room and be like:

"Man, why is she wearing that?!?"
(When the girl inevitably looks over, slip some roofies in her drink)
Wait a couple mins........wait for it.......waaiiitt.......

Boo-Yah! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: You're in.

Please, don't flatter me with your praise, it only embarrasses me.
 

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actively going out and gaming IS making them come to you except you have to demonstrate your value. Famous people already ahve demonstrated their value.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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anointed said:
actively going out and gaming IS making them come to you except you have to demonstrate your value. Famous people already ahve demonstrated their value.
Its really not the same thing.

And I'd much rather do it the 'rockstar' way...I mean who the hell actually enjoys working on seduction tactics to get sex?

Good job I'm in 2 bands and have a chance to be that rockstar :D
 

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
Who is the milfhunter guy?
 

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

Well... since I'm not a rock star or a movie star. I'd have to say #1.
 

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Rex Man said:
WRONG

There is a hidden Third way. Next time you're at the bar sitting next to a girl, point across the room and be like:

"Man, why is she wearing that?!?"
(When the girl inevitably looks over, slip some roofies in her drink)
Wait a couple mins........wait for it.......waaiiitt.......

Boo-Yah! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: You're in.

Please, don't flatter me with your praise, it only embarrasses me.
touche.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
Option 2 and it's not even close. Option 2 people get the girls doing the things they love. You talk to them about spending hours in the field, and this method or that method, and they will laugh out loud. While the Option 1 guys have to make pick-up like an obsession, sometimes, even an addiction.
 

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qweretyuiopas said:
Who is the milfhunter guy?
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.


falcon - I agree. after reading "The Game" I realized how much wasted time that was on behalf of all those people. still, I'm curious about others' opinions.
 

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The problem is - option2 guys get girls doing something they love.

What if doing what you love is economics? or computer programming? I'm sorry but it's going to be much harder to get girls through your love of computer programming than it is through your love of being a movie star.
 

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md3sign said:
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.
They are paid "actresses" man. He doesn't just walk up to random broads on the street and talk them into doing porn.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
option 3..go out and meet real life women with confidence
 

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That's why I'm an aspiring rockstar actually.
 

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Go out and show your value ;) Good BL & dressing & Social proof gets you there easily. No need to go to extremes.
 

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I'm not talking about extremes. I mentioned extremes to differentiate between the two types (and in fact they have parts of each other .. for example the milfhunter dude now has a reputation that precedes him, which makes laying chicks easier e.g. the domino effect).
 

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md3sign said:
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.


falcon - I agree. after reading "The Game" I realized how much wasted time that was on behalf of all those people. still, I'm curious about others' opinions.
O ok. I saw it, but if its a porn site I doubt they just random chicks they get paid for that. Male pornstars dont count
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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