"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Here's how I see it: 2 ways to get laid .. which would you choose?

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I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WRONG

There is a hidden Third way. Next time you're at the bar sitting next to a girl, point across the room and be like:

"Man, why is she wearing that?!?"
(When the girl inevitably looks over, slip some roofies in her drink)
Wait a couple mins........wait for it.......waaiiitt.......

Boo-Yah! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: You're in.

Please, don't flatter me with your praise, it only embarrasses me.
 

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actively going out and gaming IS making them come to you except you have to demonstrate your value. Famous people already ahve demonstrated their value.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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anointed said:
actively going out and gaming IS making them come to you except you have to demonstrate your value. Famous people already ahve demonstrated their value.
Its really not the same thing.

And I'd much rather do it the 'rockstar' way...I mean who the hell actually enjoys working on seduction tactics to get sex?

Good job I'm in 2 bands and have a chance to be that rockstar :D
 

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
Who is the milfhunter guy?
 

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

Well... since I'm not a rock star or a movie star. I'd have to say #1.
 

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Rex Man said:
WRONG

There is a hidden Third way. Next time you're at the bar sitting next to a girl, point across the room and be like:

"Man, why is she wearing that?!?"
(When the girl inevitably looks over, slip some roofies in her drink)
Wait a couple mins........wait for it.......waaiiitt.......

Boo-Yah! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: You're in.

Please, don't flatter me with your praise, it only embarrasses me.
touche.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
Option 2 and it's not even close. Option 2 people get the girls doing the things they love. You talk to them about spending hours in the field, and this method or that method, and they will laugh out loud. While the Option 1 guys have to make pick-up like an obsession, sometimes, even an addiction.
 

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qweretyuiopas said:
Who is the milfhunter guy?
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.


falcon - I agree. after reading "The Game" I realized how much wasted time that was on behalf of all those people. still, I'm curious about others' opinions.
 

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The problem is - option2 guys get girls doing something they love.

What if doing what you love is economics? or computer programming? I'm sorry but it's going to be much harder to get girls through your love of computer programming than it is through your love of being a movie star.
 

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md3sign said:
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.
They are paid "actresses" man. He doesn't just walk up to random broads on the street and talk them into doing porn.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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md3sign said:
I've been thinking lately about the types of guys that get lots of tail, and I came to the conclusion that there are 2 main types:

-those who actively go out, game, and get it (i.e. the milfhunter guy, other puas)

-those who do something else that makes girls come to them (rock stars, movie stars, etc)

So which would you choose/are you choosing and why?
option 3..go out and meet real life women with confidence
 

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That's why I'm an aspiring rockstar actually.
 

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Go out and show your value ;) Good BL & dressing & Social proof gets you there easily. No need to go to extremes.
 

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I'm not talking about extremes. I mentioned extremes to differentiate between the two types (and in fact they have parts of each other .. for example the milfhunter dude now has a reputation that precedes him, which makes laying chicks easier e.g. the domino effect).
 

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md3sign said:
just go to milfhunter.com it's that guy. basically just some random dude who got involved in making cheap porn flicks with club chicks (inthevip.com I think was the site) and the started doing his own thing .. now he basically just goes around and picks up chicks to bring back to his place and bang within like 10 minutes of meeting them, and a bunch of people are imitating him. he's just one example of a #1 type person - he's not even that attractive.


falcon - I agree. after reading "The Game" I realized how much wasted time that was on behalf of all those people. still, I'm curious about others' opinions.
O ok. I saw it, but if its a porn site I doubt they just random chicks they get paid for that. Male pornstars dont count
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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