"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What if women just wanna use me for my beefcake face and body? It happens, you know, and I really don't even have to say much of anything.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I hate it when people argue with me, and don't know what there talking about.
 

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Aight Dan, ur absolutely right. However Chris is talking about different kind of value - looks, money, power, popularity - very shallow things. Things that u can BUY.

Like you said about Skip - he can give girls dyck and conversation, charm, intriigue, etc. Because of his experience he can communicate and subcommunicate alot of good $hit.

---That stuff you CAN"T buy or fake

What Chris described is very much material-like though.
 

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And besides, since I was the one to bring up Skip, his pix are from 50 pounds ago. lol - IM NOT dissing, I'm actually givin even more props to a brotha because he can be fat, and STILL do what hes doing.
 

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Nothing ALONE will get you a woman...high-value alone but no attraction won't get a girl. All the elements have to be working together in order to be successful
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The root of "value" is masculinity!! Get to the root of the matter, if you want a solution!!
 

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ChrizZ said:
Here are some examples.

You get to know the people that work in the club. (Social proof goes up) - OK, easier said than done.

Bring friends with you. Female friends are even better and let everyone see that you are the leader by walking in front of them. - I don't get this one. If you bring and have female friends with you, aren't you bordering on AFC? Shouldn't you be sleeping with them?

Get clothes that make you stand out in a good way (Peacocking if you want to use PUA terms) - GOOD

You are the social guy in the room. The guy that talks to everybody and has interesting things to say that hook people which makes them want to be around you. -GOOD. Although I don't know if James Bond is like this so is can be contradictory at times.

Be the guy that especially girls want to hang around with. - hang around with or sleep with?

Be very well groomed. - GOOD

Have an identity and let people know. Make them know that you are a doctor or a musician or whatever. - VERY GOOD

The right bodylanguage and verbal communication skills is very important. - GOOD

You convey in stories that you are the sh!t in a non bragging way to the people in the club. - GOOD
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Pick up is a process.

You can't just walk into a club and people will be magically drawn to you.

You have to raise your value more and more while time goes by.
It's hard to make it a process. People want instant results, no waiting period to sleep with girls. That's why porn is so gratifying. Quick, to the point, and the girl does EXACTLY as we want her too.
 

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Yea word
The Boriqua said it simply and perfectly
 

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ChrizZ said:
Imagine a guy as good looking as Brad Pitt going to a bar. Women will check him out. The hot females will also notice that and will feel attraction, too.

Now imagine a guy walking in with an Armani suit, ten HB 10s walking behind him and he is waving around with 100$ bills.

Women will feel WAY more attraction for that guy than for the Brad Pitt looking guy because they want to suck value from him and make their lives better.
Have you seen the show, Millionaire Matchmaker? Being wealthy, in and of itself doesn’t get women falling for you.

Of course a woman is more likely to go for a guy with value to her but that value doesn’t necessarily have monetary value. The more I think about it, the more I see, the more I think that Last Man Standing might have the right idea with,
The root of "value" is masculinity!! Get to the root of the matter, if you want a solution!!
 

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you are on the right track concering value, but where you go off course is assuming that all women want the same thing (ie celebrity status) the guy with all the stories, etc etc. While it make work for the highest percentage of women, not every woman is like that. The key imo is to Elicit Values and work from there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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