Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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What if women just wanna use me for my beefcake face and body? It happens, you know, and I really don't even have to say much of anything.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's hard to make it a process. People want instant results, no waiting period to sleep with girls. That's why porn is so gratifying. Quick, to the point, and the girl does EXACTLY as we want her too.ChrizZ said:Here are some examples.
You get to know the people that work in the club. (Social proof goes up) - OK, easier said than done.
Bring friends with you. Female friends are even better and let everyone see that you are the leader by walking in front of them. - I don't get this one. If you bring and have female friends with you, aren't you bordering on AFC? Shouldn't you be sleeping with them?
Get clothes that make you stand out in a good way (Peacocking if you want to use PUA terms) - GOOD
You are the social guy in the room. The guy that talks to everybody and has interesting things to say that hook people which makes them want to be around you. -GOOD. Although I don't know if James Bond is like this so is can be contradictory at times.
Be the guy that especially girls want to hang around with. - hang around with or sleep with?
Be very well groomed. - GOOD
Have an identity and let people know. Make them know that you are a doctor or a musician or whatever. - VERY GOOD
The right bodylanguage and verbal communication skills is very important. - GOOD
You convey in stories that you are the sh!t in a non bragging way to the people in the club. - GOOD
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Pick up is a process.
You can't just walk into a club and people will be magically drawn to you.
You have to raise your value more and more while time goes by.
Have you seen the show, Millionaire Matchmaker? Being wealthy, in and of itself doesn’t get women falling for you.ChrizZ said:Imagine a guy as good looking as Brad Pitt going to a bar. Women will check him out. The hot females will also notice that and will feel attraction, too.
Now imagine a guy walking in with an Armani suit, ten HB 10s walking behind him and he is waving around with 100$ bills.
Women will feel WAY more attraction for that guy than for the Brad Pitt looking guy because they want to suck value from him and make their lives better.
The root of "value" is masculinity!! Get to the root of the matter, if you want a solution!!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.