"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here is a video of an Alpha Male in action

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As you think, you will become.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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He's fake/acting because if he's showing DJ bodylanguage than he (is he's confident) shouldn't act, just be himself,duh!!!!!
 
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Originally posted by johnny_chase
Speaking of the star wars kid, i've seen that kid. He was in montreal for a while, he;s from another part of quebec, lol, golf ball retriever
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You saw Star Wars Kid?! Dude, way cool! I wish I saw Star Wars Kid! Haha, now Star Wars Kid, that's an alpha male.
And another thing, Fonzie is the man.
And another thing, that video is damn funny. I won't dismantle him or his behaviour in any way, I'll just submit that I have laughed really hard watching this.
Oh and I've spent a lot of time in Croatia since I usually go to vacation there and I live just 50 miles from Croatia - that is not how you should act in Croatia or anywhere near Croatia (Slovenia, Bosnia etc.). Well actually if you're a comedian that's a good start.
 
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Ahhh, the entrance loiter, my favourite, and one of the most amazing subliminal signals you can send out, right from the start.

Unfortunately, not too successful if the person behind runs in the back of you.

Take up space, good move.

Treat it like a training video, they are never natural either, just use the concepts.

We want more of these things, maybe with some interaction.

I think the guy is doing it tongue in cheek, but it's still useful for the kinesthetically clueless.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hes trying way to hard

looks like a bully from some low budget 80's tv show
 
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I am not a Don Juan by any standards but is that how I should act when I walk into bars, Like chewing gum and wearing sleevless shirts ?

I feel a bit uneasy about doing this stuff he does in the vides
 
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LOL your a funny bloke Panda :D
Originally posted by Panda 2000
You saw Star Wars Kid?! Dude, way cool! I wish I saw Star Wars Kid! Haha, now Star Wars Kid, that's an alpha male.
And another thing, Fonzie is the man.
And another thing, that video is damn funny. I won't dismantle him or his behaviour in any way, I'll just submit that I have laughed really hard watching this.
Oh and I've spent a lot of time in Croatia since I usually go to vacation there and I live just 50 miles from Croatia - that is not how you should act in Croatia or anywhere near Croatia (Slovenia, Bosnia etc.). Well actually if you're a comedian that's a good start.
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I am not a Don Juan by any standards but is that how I should act when I walk into bars, Like chewing gum and wearing sleevless shirts ?
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Yes ... if you frequent GAY BARS!!! :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hmmmmmmmm, i wonder why the links are down....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Funny tings.

But wtf was that video about???

Where are you all from, how did you all get together etc. The site is pure comedy.

That dude wearing Von Dutch gear is jokes. :D
 
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one of the guys in that vid reminds me of a guy i know... all in all, i think i'm smoking some good **** cuz that vid made me sit here going wtf
 
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How about they get some pictures of James Dean, Gregory Peck, Marlon Brando and follow that? They were for real and guys looked up to them anyway.

I haven't watched the second vid yet, it actually looks quite cool.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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