"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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As you think, you will become.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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He's fake/acting because if he's showing DJ bodylanguage than he (is he's confident) shouldn't act, just be himself,duh!!!!!
 
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Originally posted by johnny_chase
Speaking of the star wars kid, i've seen that kid. He was in montreal for a while, he;s from another part of quebec, lol, golf ball retriever
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You saw Star Wars Kid?! Dude, way cool! I wish I saw Star Wars Kid! Haha, now Star Wars Kid, that's an alpha male.
And another thing, Fonzie is the man.
And another thing, that video is damn funny. I won't dismantle him or his behaviour in any way, I'll just submit that I have laughed really hard watching this.
Oh and I've spent a lot of time in Croatia since I usually go to vacation there and I live just 50 miles from Croatia - that is not how you should act in Croatia or anywhere near Croatia (Slovenia, Bosnia etc.). Well actually if you're a comedian that's a good start.
 
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Ahhh, the entrance loiter, my favourite, and one of the most amazing subliminal signals you can send out, right from the start.

Unfortunately, not too successful if the person behind runs in the back of you.

Take up space, good move.

Treat it like a training video, they are never natural either, just use the concepts.

We want more of these things, maybe with some interaction.

I think the guy is doing it tongue in cheek, but it's still useful for the kinesthetically clueless.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hes trying way to hard

looks like a bully from some low budget 80's tv show
 
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I am not a Don Juan by any standards but is that how I should act when I walk into bars, Like chewing gum and wearing sleevless shirts ?

I feel a bit uneasy about doing this stuff he does in the vides
 
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LOL your a funny bloke Panda :D
Originally posted by Panda 2000
You saw Star Wars Kid?! Dude, way cool! I wish I saw Star Wars Kid! Haha, now Star Wars Kid, that's an alpha male.
And another thing, Fonzie is the man.
And another thing, that video is damn funny. I won't dismantle him or his behaviour in any way, I'll just submit that I have laughed really hard watching this.
Oh and I've spent a lot of time in Croatia since I usually go to vacation there and I live just 50 miles from Croatia - that is not how you should act in Croatia or anywhere near Croatia (Slovenia, Bosnia etc.). Well actually if you're a comedian that's a good start.
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I am not a Don Juan by any standards but is that how I should act when I walk into bars, Like chewing gum and wearing sleevless shirts ?
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Yes ... if you frequent GAY BARS!!! :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hmmmmmmmm, i wonder why the links are down....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Funny tings.

But wtf was that video about???

Where are you all from, how did you all get together etc. The site is pure comedy.

That dude wearing Von Dutch gear is jokes. :D
 
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one of the guys in that vid reminds me of a guy i know... all in all, i think i'm smoking some good **** cuz that vid made me sit here going wtf
 
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How about they get some pictures of James Dean, Gregory Peck, Marlon Brando and follow that? They were for real and guys looked up to them anyway.

I haven't watched the second vid yet, it actually looks quite cool.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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