"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Here is a video of an Alpha Male in action

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As you think, you will become.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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He's fake/acting because if he's showing DJ bodylanguage than he (is he's confident) shouldn't act, just be himself,duh!!!!!
 
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Originally posted by johnny_chase
Speaking of the star wars kid, i've seen that kid. He was in montreal for a while, he;s from another part of quebec, lol, golf ball retriever
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You saw Star Wars Kid?! Dude, way cool! I wish I saw Star Wars Kid! Haha, now Star Wars Kid, that's an alpha male.
And another thing, Fonzie is the man.
And another thing, that video is damn funny. I won't dismantle him or his behaviour in any way, I'll just submit that I have laughed really hard watching this.
Oh and I've spent a lot of time in Croatia since I usually go to vacation there and I live just 50 miles from Croatia - that is not how you should act in Croatia or anywhere near Croatia (Slovenia, Bosnia etc.). Well actually if you're a comedian that's a good start.
 
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Ahhh, the entrance loiter, my favourite, and one of the most amazing subliminal signals you can send out, right from the start.

Unfortunately, not too successful if the person behind runs in the back of you.

Take up space, good move.

Treat it like a training video, they are never natural either, just use the concepts.

We want more of these things, maybe with some interaction.

I think the guy is doing it tongue in cheek, but it's still useful for the kinesthetically clueless.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hes trying way to hard

looks like a bully from some low budget 80's tv show
 
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I am not a Don Juan by any standards but is that how I should act when I walk into bars, Like chewing gum and wearing sleevless shirts ?

I feel a bit uneasy about doing this stuff he does in the vides
 
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LOL your a funny bloke Panda :D
Originally posted by Panda 2000
You saw Star Wars Kid?! Dude, way cool! I wish I saw Star Wars Kid! Haha, now Star Wars Kid, that's an alpha male.
And another thing, Fonzie is the man.
And another thing, that video is damn funny. I won't dismantle him or his behaviour in any way, I'll just submit that I have laughed really hard watching this.
Oh and I've spent a lot of time in Croatia since I usually go to vacation there and I live just 50 miles from Croatia - that is not how you should act in Croatia or anywhere near Croatia (Slovenia, Bosnia etc.). Well actually if you're a comedian that's a good start.
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Originally posted by englishcrap
I am not a Don Juan by any standards but is that how I should act when I walk into bars, Like chewing gum and wearing sleevless shirts ?
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Yes ... if you frequent GAY BARS!!! :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hmmmmmmmm, i wonder why the links are down....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Funny tings.

But wtf was that video about???

Where are you all from, how did you all get together etc. The site is pure comedy.

That dude wearing Von Dutch gear is jokes. :D
 
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one of the guys in that vid reminds me of a guy i know... all in all, i think i'm smoking some good **** cuz that vid made me sit here going wtf
 
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How about they get some pictures of James Dean, Gregory Peck, Marlon Brando and follow that? They were for real and guys looked up to them anyway.

I haven't watched the second vid yet, it actually looks quite cool.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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