“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Here’s a story about what “not ready for a relationship” really means

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I see it happen all the time
To women, they’d rather have a guy that didn’t want a relationship over one that did because “he appears desperate”. No, it just means he wants you to sh!t or get off the pot so he won’t waste his time on you and go find someone else. Women can’t fathom that some guys actually WANT commitment, nothing desperate about it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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To women, they’d rather have a guy that didn’t want a relationship over one that did because “he appears desperate”. No, it just means he wants you to sh!t or get off the pot so he won’t waste his time on you and go find someone else. Women can’t fathom that some guys actually WANT commitment, nothing desperate about it.
this is true to toxic no hope women, but for normal women no lol. I didn’t know girls were the ones proposing to men in marriages either. Quit going after crazy forever aunt single Sally’s for once. Learn to ask the right questions upfront/don’t ignore red flags
 

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Thought I’d pass this along to all of you, this was a story I read on another site. There’s SO many examples of everything we talk about on here all summed up in one story.
We all know women aren't honest when they "let a guy down."

"I'm not ready for a relationship right now," actually means "i don't want to date you."

Pure and simple. This is living proof. What happened to not being ready when the second guy came along

The lesson the first guy needs to learn from this "no matter the reason no matter the excuse they give, it is still a no and stop wasting time and effort on them."
 

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We all know women aren't honest when they "let a guy down."

"I'm not ready for a relationship right now," actually means "i don't want to date you."

Pure and simple. This is living proof. What happened to not being ready when the second guy came along

The lesson the first guy needs to learn from this "no matter the reason no matter the excuse they give, it is still a no and stop wasting time and effort on them."
But but she still wanted to be fRiEnDs! She’s the victim here clearly.lol
 

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But but she still wanted to be fRiEnDs! She’s the victim here clearly.lol
Indeed.

We have all been there with this self centered entitled snowflake that has to have her cake and eat it too.

One chick that did this to me "im not ready to start anything new with anyone. I want a couple of months of just me, you understand right?" Of course.

12 hours later she was head over heels in love with new guy. I pulled away. Gave her zero attention, stopped answering her phone calls, never returned her calls deleted her emails with no reply, aka moved on.

I run into her 3 months later out of the blue, her and new guy have already broken up, and she was fawning all over me " i miss you, i needed you, you werent there for me when i needed you. Blah blah."

Me "sorry i got to run. I'm really busy, i got a ton of things to do before my date tonight."

Her " date? You're seeing someone?"

Me" yes."

Her (she actually had the nerve to say this) " i thought you would wait for me!"

Me. "Sorry. Life moves on. I have to go."

Then she proceeded to chase me and try everything to ruin all my prospect relationships for the next 6 months.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Her (she actually had the nerve to say this) " i thought you would wait for me!"

Then she proceeded to chase me and try everything to ruin all my prospect relationships for the next 6 months.
That first line is incredible... she really said that? im almost surprised, which says a lot. The complete absence of respect she expresses is stunning.

And the next line here clearly shows she is pathological, there is something gravely wrong with that woman.
 
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That first line is incredible... she really said that? im almost surprised, which says a lot.

And the next line here clearly shows she is pathological, there is something gravely wrong with that woman.
She said it. And i firmly believed i dodged a bullet.
 

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How old was she?
Age has little to do with it these days. If he told me she was 35 I wouldn’t be shocked. If he told me she was 20 I wouldn’t be shocked either. These women really do live in their own little world. Why do you think so many freaked out and lost their minds over this pandemic? Because it upset their little world they were living in.
 

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Age has little to do with it these days. If he told me she was 35 I wouldn’t be shocked. If he told me she was 20 I wouldn’t be shocked either. These women really do live in their own little world. Why do you think so many freaked out and lost their minds over this pandemic? Because it upset their little world they were living in.
Honestly i forgot why i asked her age by now, but i agree, no age would surprise me.
 
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