SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah. But how fast she wanted exclusivity! We only fvcked twiceShe was expecting a "Wait!"
Perfect response there. A simp would have snapped his spine in half bending backwards to comply. She’s mad at the moment but respects you for your willingness to let her bounce. She’ll be back though.Nevermind she did the whole “I want someone just for me so maybe we should stop seeing each other” thing. I said “fair enough. Good luck then”
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You’re right. See the attached imagePerfect response there. A simp would have snapped his spine in half bending backwards to comply. She’s mad at the moment but respects you for your willingness to let her bounce. She’ll be back though.
"Back off, mantrap."Yeah. But how fast she wanted exclusivity! We only fvcked twice
Hahaha she’s just galvanised herself into a permanent plate. Nice work. Let her go and cool off and continue to lay good pipe when she returnsYou’re right. See the attached image
Totally agree. I’ll hit her up next week or if she does first I’ll pitch next week as the date.Hahaha she’s just galvanised herself into a permanent plate. Nice work. Let her go and cool off and continue to lay good pipe when she returns
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Thank you brotherGood pimping!
Thanks man. But I don’t know about that because I was with a 7.5 who I haven’t been able to fvck because each time I had ED (I did get the tip in a few times from semi-hardons but nothing full) anyhow the first time we attempted it she asked if I’d go steady with her.That's solid game. You lay good pipe if she wants commitment/exclusivity after two instances of sex. I think it is best to condoms with multiple partners and even one partner if you're unsure about having babies with one partner.
Oh that's not good at all. The honesty is appreciated. How's your porn consumption? At age 33, there's a good chance this is porn induced ED. ED rates have been higher in younger men in the past decade or so and porn is a major factor in that.Thanks man. But I don’t know about that because I was with a 7.5 who I haven’t been able to fvck because each time I had ED (I did get the tip in a few times from semi-hardons but nothing full) anyhow the first time we attempted it she asked if I’d go steady with her.
Maybe I’m just that hot?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I’m not a believer of “your brain on porn” tbh the girl didn’t turn me on. As you see I dont usually have a problem.Oh that's not good at all. The honesty is appreciated. How's your porn consumption? At age 33, there's a good chance this is porn induced ED. ED rates have been higher in younger men in the past decade or so and porn is a major factor in that.
Chemistry is psychological. I was turned off. That’s technically all in my headI thought it was just chemistry. Not even psychological. Because you didn't have the problem with an hb8.
It likely is more psychological than physical.I’m not a believer of “your brain on porn” tbh the girl didn’t turn me on. As you see I dont usually have a problem.
Also, the 7.5’s attractiveness compared to girls I usually get I believe it’s more psychological than physical.
Very good!Edit: As for the ED, I popped a boner driving home on the highway today. I think it’s fine
Yeah, despite that we’ve been in bed naked trying to have sex on 4 separate occasions now.It likely is more psychological than physical.
I believe now men are under more pressure to perform than ever. When a woman has an endless list of options, she doesn't have patience for much.
Very good!
Yea, kinda weird cos recently just had a 46year old, mother of 1, propositioning NSA to me via apps. She also told me that she has a stable of guys that she’s doing it with. Not gonna lie, was tempted for the free ***** even tho I’m much younger and higher SMV than her.…
I personally believe that sex is about more than just sex to girls, otherwise you are right she would have moved on.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.