SargeMaximus
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What can I do? Pic attached
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Her Passive-Aggressive Push for Monogamy
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SargeMaximus
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Nevermind she did the whole “I want someone just for me so maybe we should stop seeing each other” thing. I said “fair enough. Good luck then”
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She was expecting a "Wait!"
SargeMaximus
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Yeah. But how fast she wanted exclusivity! We only fvcked twice
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Perfect response there. A simp would have snapped his spine in half bending backwards to comply. She’s mad at the moment but respects you for your willingness to let her bounce. She’ll be back though.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You’re right. See the attached image
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Hahaha she’s just galvanised herself into a permanent plate. Nice work. Let her go and cool off and continue to lay good pipe when she returns
SargeMaximus
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Totally agree. I’ll hit her up next week or if she does first I’ll pitch next week as the date.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Thank you brother
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Good job
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That's solid game. You lay good pipe if she wants commitment/exclusivity after two instances of sex. I think it is best to condoms with multiple partners and even one partner if you're unsure about having babies with one partner.
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Thanks man. But I don’t know about that because I was with a 7.5 who I haven’t been able to fvck because each time I had ED (I did get the tip in a few times from semi-hardons but nothing full) anyhow the first time we attempted it she asked if I’d go steady with her.
Maybe I’m just that hot?
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Oh that's not good at all. The honesty is appreciated. How's your porn consumption? At age 33, there's a good chance this is porn induced ED. ED rates have been higher in younger men in the past decade or so and porn is a major factor in that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I’m not a believer of “your brain on porn” tbh the girl didn’t turn me on. As you see I dont usually have a problem.
Also, the 7.5’s attractiveness compared to girls I usually get I believe it’s more psychological than physical.
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Chemistry is psychological. I was turned off. That’s technically all in my head
Edit: As for the ED, I popped a boner driving home on the highway today. I think it’s fine
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It likely is more psychological than physical.
I believe now men are under more pressure to perform than ever. When a woman has an endless list of options, she doesn't have patience for much.
Very good!
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Yeah, despite that we’ve been in bed naked trying to have sex on 4 separate occasions now.
I personally believe that sex is about more than just sex to girls, otherwise you are right she would have moved on.
I’m sure she has now but still.
Yea, kinda weird cos recently just had a 46year old, mother of 1, propositioning NSA to me via apps. She also told me that she has a stable of guys that she’s doing it with. Not gonna lie, was tempted for the free ***** even tho I’m much younger and higher SMV than her.
Just wondering what’s the end game for a woman of her age cos riding the CC is a game for the young.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.