SargeMaximus
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What can I do? Pic attached
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Her Passive-Aggressive Push for Monogamy
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SargeMaximus
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Nevermind she did the whole “I want someone just for me so maybe we should stop seeing each other” thing. I said “fair enough. Good luck then”
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She was expecting a "Wait!"
SargeMaximus
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Yeah. But how fast she wanted exclusivity! We only fvcked twice
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Perfect response there. A simp would have snapped his spine in half bending backwards to comply. She’s mad at the moment but respects you for your willingness to let her bounce. She’ll be back though.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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You’re right. See the attached image
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Hahaha she’s just galvanised herself into a permanent plate. Nice work. Let her go and cool off and continue to lay good pipe when she returns
SargeMaximus
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Totally agree. I’ll hit her up next week or if she does first I’ll pitch next week as the date.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Thank you brother
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Good job
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That's solid game. You lay good pipe if she wants commitment/exclusivity after two instances of sex. I think it is best to condoms with multiple partners and even one partner if you're unsure about having babies with one partner.
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Thanks man. But I don’t know about that because I was with a 7.5 who I haven’t been able to fvck because each time I had ED (I did get the tip in a few times from semi-hardons but nothing full) anyhow the first time we attempted it she asked if I’d go steady with her.
Maybe I’m just that hot?
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Oh that's not good at all. The honesty is appreciated. How's your porn consumption? At age 33, there's a good chance this is porn induced ED. ED rates have been higher in younger men in the past decade or so and porn is a major factor in that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I’m not a believer of “your brain on porn” tbh the girl didn’t turn me on. As you see I dont usually have a problem.
Also, the 7.5’s attractiveness compared to girls I usually get I believe it’s more psychological than physical.
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Chemistry is psychological. I was turned off. That’s technically all in my head
Edit: As for the ED, I popped a boner driving home on the highway today. I think it’s fine
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It likely is more psychological than physical.
I believe now men are under more pressure to perform than ever. When a woman has an endless list of options, she doesn't have patience for much.
Very good!
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Yeah, despite that we’ve been in bed naked trying to have sex on 4 separate occasions now.
I personally believe that sex is about more than just sex to girls, otherwise you are right she would have moved on.
I’m sure she has now but still.
Yea, kinda weird cos recently just had a 46year old, mother of 1, propositioning NSA to me via apps. She also told me that she has a stable of guys that she’s doing it with. Not gonna lie, was tempted for the free ***** even tho I’m much younger and higher SMV than her.
Just wondering what’s the end game for a woman of her age cos riding the CC is a game for the young.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.