"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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her friend likes me too...

immrtlwun

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For those of you who read my last thread, i have had a few dates with the girl. She's still into me and what not.

Now to the problem.

I work with a few of this girl's friends. They go to school together and are all on the same swim team. One of the girls is totally into me though. She gave me her # without my asking, she flirts with me quite a bit, etc. She told me to call her some time to do something. She's a good looking girl (HB 7-8) and i dont want to pass it up, but i dont want to get both of the girls as well as the other ones i work with pissed at me for it.

What should i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannowillbookem

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play them like a piano! nah dont ljbf one cause ur shutting down possibly future conquests. string her along but a little lighter than a usual play. reserve for future use :D
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
play them like a piano! nah dont ljbf one cause ur shutting down possibly future conquests. string her along but a little lighter than a usual play. reserve for future use :D
Hmmm..try to play girls that are good friends...obviously theyre going to talk about him and if he did stuff with them both then his up sh!ts creek without a paddle. If you wanna give advice dont be stupid. Thank you come again...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dannowillbookem

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no way man dont be hitting on her friend, but dont shut her down either. they cant be talking and her friend be like 'omg he totally told me he's busy' its the beauty of the c&f attraction technique is that it doesnt give the girl any solid proof that ur digging her but it still attracts her.

oh and thank you come again? thats a might large line for such a weak argument, pal
 
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