"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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her friend likes me too...

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immrtlwun

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For those of you who read my last thread, i have had a few dates with the girl. She's still into me and what not.

Now to the problem.

I work with a few of this girl's friends. They go to school together and are all on the same swim team. One of the girls is totally into me though. She gave me her # without my asking, she flirts with me quite a bit, etc. She told me to call her some time to do something. She's a good looking girl (HB 7-8) and i dont want to pass it up, but i dont want to get both of the girls as well as the other ones i work with pissed at me for it.

What should i do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dannowillbookem

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play them like a piano! nah dont ljbf one cause ur shutting down possibly future conquests. string her along but a little lighter than a usual play. reserve for future use :D
 
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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
play them like a piano! nah dont ljbf one cause ur shutting down possibly future conquests. string her along but a little lighter than a usual play. reserve for future use :D
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Hmmm..try to play girls that are good friends...obviously theyre going to talk about him and if he did stuff with them both then his up sh!ts creek without a paddle. If you wanna give advice dont be stupid. Thank you come again...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dannowillbookem

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no way man dont be hitting on her friend, but dont shut her down either. they cant be talking and her friend be like 'omg he totally told me he's busy' its the beauty of the c&f attraction technique is that it doesnt give the girl any solid proof that ur digging her but it still attracts her.

oh and thank you come again? thats a might large line for such a weak argument, pal
 
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