"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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her friend likes me too...

immrtlwun

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For those of you who read my last thread, i have had a few dates with the girl. She's still into me and what not.

Now to the problem.

I work with a few of this girl's friends. They go to school together and are all on the same swim team. One of the girls is totally into me though. She gave me her # without my asking, she flirts with me quite a bit, etc. She told me to call her some time to do something. She's a good looking girl (HB 7-8) and i dont want to pass it up, but i dont want to get both of the girls as well as the other ones i work with pissed at me for it.

What should i do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dannowillbookem

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play them like a piano! nah dont ljbf one cause ur shutting down possibly future conquests. string her along but a little lighter than a usual play. reserve for future use :D
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
play them like a piano! nah dont ljbf one cause ur shutting down possibly future conquests. string her along but a little lighter than a usual play. reserve for future use :D
Hmmm..try to play girls that are good friends...obviously theyre going to talk about him and if he did stuff with them both then his up sh!ts creek without a paddle. If you wanna give advice dont be stupid. Thank you come again...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dannowillbookem

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no way man dont be hitting on her friend, but dont shut her down either. they cant be talking and her friend be like 'omg he totally told me he's busy' its the beauty of the c&f attraction technique is that it doesnt give the girl any solid proof that ur digging her but it still attracts her.

oh and thank you come again? thats a might large line for such a weak argument, pal
 
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