"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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her friend likes me too...

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immrtlwun

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For those of you who read my last thread, i have had a few dates with the girl. She's still into me and what not.

Now to the problem.

I work with a few of this girl's friends. They go to school together and are all on the same swim team. One of the girls is totally into me though. She gave me her # without my asking, she flirts with me quite a bit, etc. She told me to call her some time to do something. She's a good looking girl (HB 7-8) and i dont want to pass it up, but i dont want to get both of the girls as well as the other ones i work with pissed at me for it.

What should i do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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play them like a piano! nah dont ljbf one cause ur shutting down possibly future conquests. string her along but a little lighter than a usual play. reserve for future use :D
 
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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
play them like a piano! nah dont ljbf one cause ur shutting down possibly future conquests. string her along but a little lighter than a usual play. reserve for future use :D
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Hmmm..try to play girls that are good friends...obviously theyre going to talk about him and if he did stuff with them both then his up sh!ts creek without a paddle. If you wanna give advice dont be stupid. Thank you come again...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dannowillbookem

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no way man dont be hitting on her friend, but dont shut her down either. they cant be talking and her friend be like 'omg he totally told me he's busy' its the beauty of the c&f attraction technique is that it doesnt give the girl any solid proof that ur digging her but it still attracts her.

oh and thank you come again? thats a might large line for such a weak argument, pal
 
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