Helping a "woman" friend, what advice to give to comfort her. Called me 10pm crying because of a guy

[amaterasu]

Hi DJs,

I'm kinda bit sleepy now, so I wasn't really sure about the advices I gave her on how to deal with her heart break from a guy who she currently dated since February 2017.

She's hurting right now because the guy doesn't have any straight answer to her whether they have a commitment/relationship.

The guy said something really offensive and was the cause of calling me late in the evening.

She invested emotions, effort, time etc...

The main reason why she's crying.

How do you help a woman friend having a situation like this?

I would love to hear your advices and opinions too

 

[lizardking82]

First of all, you help a woman friend by not being her friend at all. You help her by being an acquintance, someone she knows. You are probably kinda bored with her drama already and the reason why that is so is because you either don't like her and don't feel attraction or you are subconsciously upset she is crying over some other dude and not blowing your pipe.

Solution: stop having female friends, 99,9% of them are not even worth it. But I have a gut feeling you wanna bang this chick, just don't have the courage to go for it.

 

[amaterasu]

First of all, you help a woman friend by not being her friend at all. You help her by being an acquintance, someone she knows. You are probably kinda bored with her drama already and the reason why that is so is because you either don't like her and don't feel attraction or you are subconsciously upset she is crying over some other dude and not blowing your pipe.

Solution: stop having female friends, 99,9% of them are not even worth it. But I have a gut feeling you wanna bang this chick, just don't have the courage to go for it.

Wrong.

Really? are you even a human being?

 

[The Duke]

Take this schitt to Loveshack.com.

Come On Moderators, your forum is headed straight to Faggotville.

Time to clean things up.

 

[amaterasu]

Take this schitt to Loveshack.com.

Come On Moderators, your forum is headed straight to Faggotville.

Time to clean things up.

You are a Beta. Period.

True DJs help one another no matter what the situation is.

Dj are all positive, and you're not.

Beta DJs like you should be instantly kicked out from this forum.

Unless the Moderators here are totally blind determining what good and bad is.

Simple.

 

[lizardking82]

You are a Beta. Period.

True DJs help one another no matter what the situation is.

Dj are all positive, and you're not.

Beta DJs like you should be instantly kicked out from this forum.

Unless the Moderators here are totally blind determining what good and bad is.

Simple.

Someone who worries how to console his female friend is calling us beta? LOL this was fun. You're way too gone, my man

 

[amaterasu]

Someone who worries how to console his female friend is calling us beta? LOL this was fun. You're way too gone, my man

Really? you call yourself a Dj and doesn't have female friends?

you are just a burned up person, beta.

You better check out the articles about being a true dj on the forum first before you come back and post another reply here.

If you're not helping then don't obviously post something that would not contribute something GOOD TO THIS FORUM.

 

[Alvafe]

You are a Beta. Period.

True DJs help one another no matter what the situation is.

Dj are all positive, and you're not.

Beta DJs like you should be instantly kicked out from this forum.

Unless the Moderators here are totally blind determining what good and bad is.

Simple.

he is not the one with a name of a japanese goddess

problem one if she is not the kind of girl you can call at night to help you or give you a ride then you are ****ed with everything the dude you are so angry about is right, you are a weakling

and only reason I see this is you want to nail her but lack courage to do so, so you have 2 paths to choose, stay there consoling her about everything fill her need for male atencion without you getting nothing in return, or man up stop caring about her and move on,

if is not going out getting drunk and her paying for her drinks the very least you should not even remember she ever existed even less take your phone in the middle of night

 

[lizardking82]

These kind of people come here to get confirmations of their twisted ideas, not learn and grow. You tell them the truth, they get angry LOL

 

[amaterasu]

he is not the one with a name of a japanese goddess

problem one if she is not the kind of girl you can call at night to help you or give you a ride then you are ****ed with everything the dude you are so angry about is right, you are a weakling

and only reason I see this is you want to nail her but lack courage to do so, so you have 2 paths to choose, stay there consoling her about everything fill her need for male atencion without you getting nothing in return, or man up stop caring about her and move on,

if is not going out getting drunk and her paying for her drinks the very least you should not even remember she ever existed even less take your phone in the middle of night

I have no intention to have sex with her.

She is a one of my precious HUMAN BEING FRIEND.

I would like to say this again and see if you all people can understand this.

SHE IS MY FRIEND.

 

[amaterasu]

These kind of people come here to get confirmations of their twisted ideas, not learn and grow. You tell them the truth, they get angry LOL

Hey man, answer this question.

One of the members here on this forum is a woman, and she's my friend too.

So are you saying that she's WORTHLESS?

So where is the truth there?

 

[lizardking82]

Hey man, answer this question.

One of the members here on this forum is a woman, and she's my friend too.

So are you saying that she's WORTHLESS?

No, I am saying you probably wanna bang her LOL

 

[amaterasu]

No, I am saying you probably wanna bang her LOL

That's not what you have said a while ago.

You said that we should not have female friends because 99.99% are not worth it.

What kind of advice is that?

You teach people not to have female friends, go ahead and tell that to your kids. Let's see what will happen.

 

[doctor1996]

Hi DJs,

I'm kinda bit sleepy now, so I wasn't really sure about the advices I gave her on how to deal with her heart break from a guy who she currently dated since February 2017.

She's hurting right now because the guy doesn't have any straight answer to her whether they have a commitment/relationship.

The guy said something really offensive and was the cause of calling me late in the evening.

She invested emotions, effort, time etc...

The main reason why she's crying.

How do you help a woman friend having a situation like this?

I would love to hear your advices and opinions too

When this happens, from what I've read in the DJBible, all you have to do is listen. Don't be a beta,

"There, there sweetheart! He doesn't know what an amazing girl you are!" If you did this you're a beta

but I feel like you are beta

 

[RangerMIke]

Tell her if she is not getting what she wants she should go find someone that will. If he doesn't want to be exclusive, then she should start fvcking other guys... starting with you right now... since she woke you up.

 

[Masculinity]

Hi DJs,

I'm kinda bit sleepy now, so I wasn't really sure about the advices I gave her on how to deal with her heart break from a guy who she currently dated since February 2017.

She's hurting right now because the guy doesn't have any straight answer to her whether they have a commitment/relationship.

The guy said something really offensive and was the cause of calling me late in the evening.

She invested emotions, effort, time etc...

The main reason why she's crying.

How do you help a woman friend having a situation like this?

I would love to hear your advices and opinions too

You're deep in the friend zone.

 

[marmel75]

Why would you ever put yourself in this situatuin? Tell her to go call a woman friend.
This is why its a bad idea to be friends with women.

 

[PokerStar]

Tell her if she is not getting what she wants she should go find someone that will. If he doesn't want to be exclusive, then she should start fvcking other guys... starting with you right now... since she woke you up.

Best advice so far.

 

[Red Legg]

You are clueless OP......... the only guy that is doing it right in this situation is the dude she is crying over you are just a hapless orbiter.

 

[Glassguy]

Buy her a dozen roses and write her a poem. Works like a charm.

Dont forget the box of expensive chocolates and big teddy bear. She will forget about him and start sucking new c0cks in no time flat.

Just not yours........