"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mcfusion31 said:
I don't watch porn. I feel like that is the most cuck and beta thing you could do because you're watching other people have sex.
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You have a good mindset on that.

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I get timid even with high sex drive. I get attached to an outcome
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Outcome dependence is a major problem for a lot of men. Also, rejection is personal and it hurts.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SW15 said:
You have a good mindset on that.



Outcome dependence is a major problem for a lot of men. Also, rejection is personal and it hurts.
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Rejection doesn't hurt. It's the attachment to outcome. Listening to Dr. Robert Glover's book, I found his recommendation on gratitude journaling to be particularly helpful. It has helped me transition from a state of scarcity to one of optimism, embracing abundance. I have a bad mental attitude toward doing social activities alone because I'm used to doing things with friends but they're married and my social circle diminished because of it. My inner monologue has been bitching at me to go out.
 
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