"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There is this asian girly girl chick at work who says to the guy at work. "He is not my type" . She has said this infront of me a few times now. She has said that she is looking for a man that has a lot of money. She says that I couldn't aford her. So I just don't get it. does this mean that I'm not her type for a relationship but I am her type to **** her? Why would she say this anyway. I've never shown interest in her.

I wouldn't mind f--king her though.

Can someone please tell me what this girl is talking about?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes she totally admits that she is only looking for a man who has money. I respect her fore being honest that way..

I just want to f--k her. I need to think of some way to let her know that.
 

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damn...
she came into the room and said "he is not my type" again..

so.. then I asked her.. "do you get drunk easy?" and she sad "no. I don't drink. I'm always in control. you will not win me on that round thank you"

this girl is priceless. :)

I think I have to keep hiting on her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"he's not my type" means "he's not my type"
 

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Her: He's not my type...

You: That's a good thing for you - becuase I'd only fvck you and leave you....
 

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Originally posted by NewMan
Her: He's not my type...

You: That's a good thing for you - becuase I'd only fvck you and leave you....
thanks. I will try this one on her and post her reply. :)
 

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Obviously she wants a rich guy...but that's just to take care of her material needs. She'll never want a relationship with you, but...Try this -- it has worked for me in a similar situation.

When she says something about wanting a rich guy, say something like

"Great! Find yourself a rich guy, and then call me when he goes out of town. Then we'll have some real fun..."

or..."Great! Maybe he can pay for our hot weekend in the bahamas..."


Whatever you do, don't be a chump and say the word "sex" or the f-word. Be *suggestive...
 
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