Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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00Kevin

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There is this asian girly girl chick at work who says to the guy at work. "He is not my type" . She has said this infront of me a few times now. She has said that she is looking for a man that has a lot of money. She says that I couldn't aford her. So I just don't get it. does this mean that I'm not her type for a relationship but I am her type to **** her? Why would she say this anyway. I've never shown interest in her.

I wouldn't mind f--king her though.

Can someone please tell me what this girl is talking about?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes she totally admits that she is only looking for a man who has money. I respect her fore being honest that way..

I just want to f--k her. I need to think of some way to let her know that.
 

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damn...
she came into the room and said "he is not my type" again..

so.. then I asked her.. "do you get drunk easy?" and she sad "no. I don't drink. I'm always in control. you will not win me on that round thank you"

this girl is priceless. :)

I think I have to keep hiting on her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"he's not my type" means "he's not my type"
 

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Her: He's not my type...

You: That's a good thing for you - becuase I'd only fvck you and leave you....
 

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Originally posted by NewMan
Her: He's not my type...

You: That's a good thing for you - becuase I'd only fvck you and leave you....
thanks. I will try this one on her and post her reply. :)
 

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Obviously she wants a rich guy...but that's just to take care of her material needs. She'll never want a relationship with you, but...Try this -- it has worked for me in a similar situation.

When she says something about wanting a rich guy, say something like

"Great! Find yourself a rich guy, and then call me when he goes out of town. Then we'll have some real fun..."

or..."Great! Maybe he can pay for our hot weekend in the bahamas..."


Whatever you do, don't be a chump and say the word "sex" or the f-word. Be *suggestive...
 
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