"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There is this asian girly girl chick at work who says to the guy at work. "He is not my type" . She has said this infront of me a few times now. She has said that she is looking for a man that has a lot of money. She says that I couldn't aford her. So I just don't get it. does this mean that I'm not her type for a relationship but I am her type to **** her? Why would she say this anyway. I've never shown interest in her.

I wouldn't mind f--king her though.

Can someone please tell me what this girl is talking about?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes she totally admits that she is only looking for a man who has money. I respect her fore being honest that way..

I just want to f--k her. I need to think of some way to let her know that.
 

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damn...
she came into the room and said "he is not my type" again..

so.. then I asked her.. "do you get drunk easy?" and she sad "no. I don't drink. I'm always in control. you will not win me on that round thank you"

this girl is priceless. :)

I think I have to keep hiting on her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"he's not my type" means "he's not my type"
 

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Her: He's not my type...

You: That's a good thing for you - becuase I'd only fvck you and leave you....
 

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Originally posted by NewMan
Her: He's not my type...

You: That's a good thing for you - becuase I'd only fvck you and leave you....
thanks. I will try this one on her and post her reply. :)
 

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Obviously she wants a rich guy...but that's just to take care of her material needs. She'll never want a relationship with you, but...Try this -- it has worked for me in a similar situation.

When she says something about wanting a rich guy, say something like

"Great! Find yourself a rich guy, and then call me when he goes out of town. Then we'll have some real fun..."

or..."Great! Maybe he can pay for our hot weekend in the bahamas..."


Whatever you do, don't be a chump and say the word "sex" or the f-word. Be *suggestive...
 
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