DiskJockey
Don Juan
myspace.com/teejay3383
any advice much appreciated.
any advice much appreciated.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Help with my online profile please!!
- Thread starter DiskJockey
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's difficult to say what you should and shouldn't do on a myspace page since it's all down to who you are. Some would also say it might not even matter. I think some things that MIGHT help are:
- Get some photos of you socialising. Three is a good amount but they all seem like you took them - if you've got some taken by others or when you're out and about you'll come across looking more social.
- I'd personally avoid having what seems like models (eg. Candy) on your top friends (or even on your friends list at all). Though if you actually know her then well done
Other than those things the rest is really down to what you're like.
- Get some photos of you socialising. Three is a good amount but they all seem like you took them - if you've got some taken by others or when you're out and about you'll come across looking more social.
- I'd personally avoid having what seems like models (eg. Candy) on your top friends (or even on your friends list at all). Though if you actually know her then well done
Other than those things the rest is really down to what you're like.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yeah, pics socializing, smiling, and at least one full-body shot. Not the creepy, shirtless alone in bedroom camera phone pic that is so common, but a normal picture of you at the beach or something that would show you don't have a big belly, that would help. A picture of you DJing would be great, too.
Also, I would drop the porn star from your top four.
Also, I would drop the porn star from your top four.
DiskJockey
Don Juan
Thanks guys.
stop listening to these guys who are clueless PLEASE
#1 you need pics that show your body, girls need to know that you are in good shape
#2 thats a silly haircut, you need pics that show a sexy smooth hairstyle
#3 take out your About Me section................wtf are u out on an audition for a date???? your a ****ing DON JUAN who's on myspace just so girls can be graced by your presnence, dont just spill your heart out randomly as to who you are
you don't wanna sound like an AFC nice guy
#1 you need pics that show your body, girls need to know that you are in good shape
#2 thats a silly haircut, you need pics that show a sexy smooth hairstyle
#3 take out your About Me section................wtf are u out on an audition for a date???? your a ****ing DON JUAN who's on myspace just so girls can be graced by your presnence, dont just spill your heart out randomly as to who you are
you don't wanna sound like an AFC nice guy
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.