DiskJockey
Don Juan
myspace.com/teejay3383
any advice much appreciated.
any advice much appreciated.
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Help with my online profile please!!
- Thread starter DiskJockey
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's difficult to say what you should and shouldn't do on a myspace page since it's all down to who you are. Some would also say it might not even matter. I think some things that MIGHT help are:
- Get some photos of you socialising. Three is a good amount but they all seem like you took them - if you've got some taken by others or when you're out and about you'll come across looking more social.
- I'd personally avoid having what seems like models (eg. Candy) on your top friends (or even on your friends list at all). Though if you actually know her then well done
Other than those things the rest is really down to what you're like.
- Get some photos of you socialising. Three is a good amount but they all seem like you took them - if you've got some taken by others or when you're out and about you'll come across looking more social.
- I'd personally avoid having what seems like models (eg. Candy) on your top friends (or even on your friends list at all). Though if you actually know her then well done
Other than those things the rest is really down to what you're like.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yeah, pics socializing, smiling, and at least one full-body shot. Not the creepy, shirtless alone in bedroom camera phone pic that is so common, but a normal picture of you at the beach or something that would show you don't have a big belly, that would help. A picture of you DJing would be great, too.
Also, I would drop the porn star from your top four.
Also, I would drop the porn star from your top four.
DiskJockey
Don Juan
Thanks guys.
stop listening to these guys who are clueless PLEASE
#1 you need pics that show your body, girls need to know that you are in good shape
#2 thats a silly haircut, you need pics that show a sexy smooth hairstyle
#3 take out your About Me section................wtf are u out on an audition for a date???? your a ****ing DON JUAN who's on myspace just so girls can be graced by your presnence, dont just spill your heart out randomly as to who you are
you don't wanna sound like an AFC nice guy
#1 you need pics that show your body, girls need to know that you are in good shape
#2 thats a silly haircut, you need pics that show a sexy smooth hairstyle
#3 take out your About Me section................wtf are u out on an audition for a date???? your a ****ing DON JUAN who's on myspace just so girls can be graced by your presnence, dont just spill your heart out randomly as to who you are
you don't wanna sound like an AFC nice guy
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.