DiskJockey
Don Juan
myspace.com/teejay3383
any advice much appreciated.
any advice much appreciated.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Help with my online profile please!!
- Thread starter DiskJockey
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's difficult to say what you should and shouldn't do on a myspace page since it's all down to who you are. Some would also say it might not even matter. I think some things that MIGHT help are:
- Get some photos of you socialising. Three is a good amount but they all seem like you took them - if you've got some taken by others or when you're out and about you'll come across looking more social.
- I'd personally avoid having what seems like models (eg. Candy) on your top friends (or even on your friends list at all). Though if you actually know her then well done
Other than those things the rest is really down to what you're like.
- Get some photos of you socialising. Three is a good amount but they all seem like you took them - if you've got some taken by others or when you're out and about you'll come across looking more social.
- I'd personally avoid having what seems like models (eg. Candy) on your top friends (or even on your friends list at all). Though if you actually know her then well done
Other than those things the rest is really down to what you're like.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yeah, pics socializing, smiling, and at least one full-body shot. Not the creepy, shirtless alone in bedroom camera phone pic that is so common, but a normal picture of you at the beach or something that would show you don't have a big belly, that would help. A picture of you DJing would be great, too.
Also, I would drop the porn star from your top four.
Also, I would drop the porn star from your top four.
DiskJockey
Don Juan
Thanks guys.
stop listening to these guys who are clueless PLEASE
#1 you need pics that show your body, girls need to know that you are in good shape
#2 thats a silly haircut, you need pics that show a sexy smooth hairstyle
#3 take out your About Me section................wtf are u out on an audition for a date???? your a ****ing DON JUAN who's on myspace just so girls can be graced by your presnence, dont just spill your heart out randomly as to who you are
you don't wanna sound like an AFC nice guy
#1 you need pics that show your body, girls need to know that you are in good shape
#2 thats a silly haircut, you need pics that show a sexy smooth hairstyle
#3 take out your About Me section................wtf are u out on an audition for a date???? your a ****ing DON JUAN who's on myspace just so girls can be graced by your presnence, dont just spill your heart out randomly as to who you are
you don't wanna sound like an AFC nice guy
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.