DiskJockey
Don Juan
myspace.com/teejay3383
any advice much appreciated.
any advice much appreciated.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Help with my online profile please!!
- Thread starter DiskJockey
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's difficult to say what you should and shouldn't do on a myspace page since it's all down to who you are. Some would also say it might not even matter. I think some things that MIGHT help are:
- Get some photos of you socialising. Three is a good amount but they all seem like you took them - if you've got some taken by others or when you're out and about you'll come across looking more social.
- I'd personally avoid having what seems like models (eg. Candy) on your top friends (or even on your friends list at all). Though if you actually know her then well done
Other than those things the rest is really down to what you're like.
- Get some photos of you socialising. Three is a good amount but they all seem like you took them - if you've got some taken by others or when you're out and about you'll come across looking more social.
- I'd personally avoid having what seems like models (eg. Candy) on your top friends (or even on your friends list at all). Though if you actually know her then well done
Other than those things the rest is really down to what you're like.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yeah, pics socializing, smiling, and at least one full-body shot. Not the creepy, shirtless alone in bedroom camera phone pic that is so common, but a normal picture of you at the beach or something that would show you don't have a big belly, that would help. A picture of you DJing would be great, too.
Also, I would drop the porn star from your top four.
Also, I would drop the porn star from your top four.
DiskJockey
Don Juan
Thanks guys.
stop listening to these guys who are clueless PLEASE
#1 you need pics that show your body, girls need to know that you are in good shape
#2 thats a silly haircut, you need pics that show a sexy smooth hairstyle
#3 take out your About Me section................wtf are u out on an audition for a date???? your a ****ing DON JUAN who's on myspace just so girls can be graced by your presnence, dont just spill your heart out randomly as to who you are
you don't wanna sound like an AFC nice guy
#1 you need pics that show your body, girls need to know that you are in good shape
#2 thats a silly haircut, you need pics that show a sexy smooth hairstyle
#3 take out your About Me section................wtf are u out on an audition for a date???? your a ****ing DON JUAN who's on myspace just so girls can be graced by your presnence, dont just spill your heart out randomly as to who you are
you don't wanna sound like an AFC nice guy
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.