hey guys. i go to a very small school(150 kids) and am/was kind of talking to this senior(i'm a junior). we have one class together. we were talking for about a month and everything seemed to be going good and then i just heard from someone she was talking to another guy from another school. we still talk but not as much. advice?????
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
...your point is?gijoe said:
Who cares if she talks to another guy? It means NOTHING. Don't over-analyze every situation and think your chances are ruined because she... *GASP*...spoke to another male human being!
Like really, I'm sorry if it was kind of harsh but honestly, why do people like you worry about the dumbest things? :nono:
Its been bugging me for so long.
All you gotta do is keep talking to her, make her laugh, tease her! Read the DJ bible and APPLY APPLY APPLY! Flirt with other girls, don't focus just on one person. Theres plenty of other fish in the sea.
However, don't read TOO MUCH. The bible is just a general guideline. Just get out there, experience everything first hand, and you'll learn oh so much more than reading some article on the internet!
Good luck bro.
Remember, don't over-analyze everything a girl does...EVER!
oh okaygijoe said:
Well you should be chilling with other girls too man
The fact that your a junior hanging out with a senior chick is pretty sweet! Good job!
So you must be doing something right, just keep doing what your doing, BUT amp it up abit and you and her might get somewhere
Like I said, read the bible and then apply it.
Good luck bro!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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bro....
FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS.
dont act like shes the only one.
your probably scaring her off.
do you drive??
if so...take some girl friends out on a night, play some pool, go to the hookah bar. hang out. take some pictures, post them on myspace.
show the world that ur a fun guy.
then text her like ONCE in a while to see whats goin on and if she wants to kick it.
just be a fun guy, that can flirt with other girls....
dont tell her to much to fast.
be confident.
DONT ASK HER ANYTHING.
tell her what you want.
"me and my friends are goin to the movies, you should come" - GOOD
"Wana go to the movies with me" - BAD
BE IN CONTROL
FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS.
dont act like shes the only one.
your probably scaring her off.
do you drive??
if so...take some girl friends out on a night, play some pool, go to the hookah bar. hang out. take some pictures, post them on myspace.
show the world that ur a fun guy.
then text her like ONCE in a while to see whats goin on and if she wants to kick it.
just be a fun guy, that can flirt with other girls....
dont tell her to much to fast.
be confident.
DONT ASK HER ANYTHING.
tell her what you want.
"me and my friends are goin to the movies, you should come" - GOOD
"Wana go to the movies with me" - BAD
BE IN CONTROL
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if she liked you, she would be jealouse and want to get ur attention.
ur either being the AFC...or she plainly doesnt like you, or something that you have done, or are doing
girls want guys they cant have
ur either being the AFC...or she plainly doesnt like you, or something that you have done, or are doing
girls want guys they cant have