hey guys. i go to a very small school(150 kids) and am/was kind of talking to this senior(i'm a junior). we have one class together. we were talking for about a month and everything seemed to be going good and then i just heard from someone she was talking to another guy from another school. we still talk but not as much. advice?????
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
...your point is?gijoe said:
Who cares if she talks to another guy? It means NOTHING. Don't over-analyze every situation and think your chances are ruined because she... *GASP*...spoke to another male human being!
Like really, I'm sorry if it was kind of harsh but honestly, why do people like you worry about the dumbest things? :nono:
Its been bugging me for so long.
All you gotta do is keep talking to her, make her laugh, tease her! Read the DJ bible and APPLY APPLY APPLY! Flirt with other girls, don't focus just on one person. Theres plenty of other fish in the sea.
However, don't read TOO MUCH. The bible is just a general guideline. Just get out there, experience everything first hand, and you'll learn oh so much more than reading some article on the internet!
Good luck bro.
Remember, don't over-analyze everything a girl does...EVER!
oh okaygijoe said:
Well you should be chilling with other girls too man
The fact that your a junior hanging out with a senior chick is pretty sweet! Good job!
So you must be doing something right, just keep doing what your doing, BUT amp it up abit and you and her might get somewhere
Like I said, read the bible and then apply it.
Good luck bro!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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bro....
FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS.
dont act like shes the only one.
your probably scaring her off.
do you drive??
if so...take some girl friends out on a night, play some pool, go to the hookah bar. hang out. take some pictures, post them on myspace.
show the world that ur a fun guy.
then text her like ONCE in a while to see whats goin on and if she wants to kick it.
just be a fun guy, that can flirt with other girls....
dont tell her to much to fast.
be confident.
DONT ASK HER ANYTHING.
tell her what you want.
"me and my friends are goin to the movies, you should come" - GOOD
"Wana go to the movies with me" - BAD
BE IN CONTROL
FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS.
dont act like shes the only one.
your probably scaring her off.
do you drive??
if so...take some girl friends out on a night, play some pool, go to the hookah bar. hang out. take some pictures, post them on myspace.
show the world that ur a fun guy.
then text her like ONCE in a while to see whats goin on and if she wants to kick it.
just be a fun guy, that can flirt with other girls....
dont tell her to much to fast.
be confident.
DONT ASK HER ANYTHING.
tell her what you want.
"me and my friends are goin to the movies, you should come" - GOOD
"Wana go to the movies with me" - BAD
BE IN CONTROL
Daniel1099
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if she liked you, she would be jealouse and want to get ur attention.
ur either being the AFC...or she plainly doesnt like you, or something that you have done, or are doing
girls want guys they cant have
ur either being the AFC...or she plainly doesnt like you, or something that you have done, or are doing
girls want guys they cant have