hey guys. i go to a very small school(150 kids) and am/was kind of talking to this senior(i'm a junior). we have one class together. we were talking for about a month and everything seemed to be going good and then i just heard from someone she was talking to another guy from another school. we still talk but not as much. advice?????
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
...your point is?gijoe said:
Who cares if she talks to another guy? It means NOTHING. Don't over-analyze every situation and think your chances are ruined because she... *GASP*...spoke to another male human being!
Like really, I'm sorry if it was kind of harsh but honestly, why do people like you worry about the dumbest things? :nono:
Its been bugging me for so long.
All you gotta do is keep talking to her, make her laugh, tease her! Read the DJ bible and APPLY APPLY APPLY! Flirt with other girls, don't focus just on one person. Theres plenty of other fish in the sea.
However, don't read TOO MUCH. The bible is just a general guideline. Just get out there, experience everything first hand, and you'll learn oh so much more than reading some article on the internet!
Good luck bro.
Remember, don't over-analyze everything a girl does...EVER!
oh okaygijoe said:
Well you should be chilling with other girls too man
The fact that your a junior hanging out with a senior chick is pretty sweet! Good job!
So you must be doing something right, just keep doing what your doing, BUT amp it up abit and you and her might get somewhere
Like I said, read the bible and then apply it.
Good luck bro!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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bro....
FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS.
dont act like shes the only one.
your probably scaring her off.
do you drive??
if so...take some girl friends out on a night, play some pool, go to the hookah bar. hang out. take some pictures, post them on myspace.
show the world that ur a fun guy.
then text her like ONCE in a while to see whats goin on and if she wants to kick it.
just be a fun guy, that can flirt with other girls....
dont tell her to much to fast.
be confident.
DONT ASK HER ANYTHING.
tell her what you want.
"me and my friends are goin to the movies, you should come" - GOOD
"Wana go to the movies with me" - BAD
BE IN CONTROL
FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS.
dont act like shes the only one.
your probably scaring her off.
do you drive??
if so...take some girl friends out on a night, play some pool, go to the hookah bar. hang out. take some pictures, post them on myspace.
show the world that ur a fun guy.
then text her like ONCE in a while to see whats goin on and if she wants to kick it.
just be a fun guy, that can flirt with other girls....
dont tell her to much to fast.
be confident.
DONT ASK HER ANYTHING.
tell her what you want.
"me and my friends are goin to the movies, you should come" - GOOD
"Wana go to the movies with me" - BAD
BE IN CONTROL
Daniel1099
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if she liked you, she would be jealouse and want to get ur attention.
ur either being the AFC...or she plainly doesnt like you, or something that you have done, or are doing
girls want guys they cant have
ur either being the AFC...or she plainly doesnt like you, or something that you have done, or are doing
girls want guys they cant have