Ive been maching this girl for a little while just small stuff a couple texts and we spoke on the phone briefly. Anyway I started texting her and teasing her about sending me drunk texts, she laughed and replied that I wasn't the only one she was sending texts to. She must be teasing, but how do I reply, and keep my frame of greater value?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
help staying in frame?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I'd probably say something like "Same goes for you!" just tease her back. It will probably build interest with her because she'll realize you have other options and she's no big deal to you.
Mantis Toboggan
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It seems like you two are just joking around. It's not really a "frame of greater value" moment.
Just say "yeah I bet." And change the topic. Ideally change the topic to when she's going on a date with you. There's no bigger waste of time than text conversations. You want to show greater value? Show that you're too busy for that crap.
Just say "yeah I bet." And change the topic. Ideally change the topic to when she's going on a date with you. There's no bigger waste of time than text conversations. You want to show greater value? Show that you're too busy for that crap.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I would've wrote, 'nice! Bring her too! lol' ... then right away tell her where to meet you on ur 1st date. & not to look too sloppy
If u ignore it or make a big deal about it then that shows a level of care. which gives up power..
If u ignore it or make a big deal about it then that shows a level of care. which gives up power..