Ive been maching this girl for a little while just small stuff a couple texts and we spoke on the phone briefly. Anyway I started texting her and teasing her about sending me drunk texts, she laughed and replied that I wasn't the only one she was sending texts to. She must be teasing, but how do I reply, and keep my frame of greater value?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
help staying in frame?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I'd probably say something like "Same goes for you!" just tease her back. It will probably build interest with her because she'll realize you have other options and she's no big deal to you.
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It seems like you two are just joking around. It's not really a "frame of greater value" moment.
Just say "yeah I bet." And change the topic. Ideally change the topic to when she's going on a date with you. There's no bigger waste of time than text conversations. You want to show greater value? Show that you're too busy for that crap.
Just say "yeah I bet." And change the topic. Ideally change the topic to when she's going on a date with you. There's no bigger waste of time than text conversations. You want to show greater value? Show that you're too busy for that crap.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I would've wrote, 'nice! Bring her too! lol' ... then right away tell her where to meet you on ur 1st date. & not to look too sloppy
If u ignore it or make a big deal about it then that shows a level of care. which gives up power..
If u ignore it or make a big deal about it then that shows a level of care. which gives up power..