"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help needed on girl trying to make you jealous

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what is the proper way to react when a girl you are after is blatantly trying to make you jealous flirting with other men in front of you? Also what does it mean and why tehy act this way.? Thanks for input.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Remain unphased. It's a cry for attention, give it to her on your terms.
 

defiancy

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don't allow yourself to be affected...simple as that. This is the tips section by the way
 

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Questions do not belong in the tips forum.
 

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what is the proper way to react when a girl you are after is blatantly trying to make you jealous flirting with other men in front of you?
If she is your girlfriend...then it is obvious you didnt talk to her about respect. So the best solution is to talk to her or dump her.

If she is just a girl that likes you and you like her...well, what are you waiting for?


And somebody is right...this is NOT a question page. This is a tips place.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonMEgaHoss

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One. Wrong Forum.

Two. She's an attention ho. Just looking to play with guys to boost their egos; Shows you alittle affection to none. Then alot or some when they want something from you.

Three: She's testing your jealousy factor (probably testing for LTR or exclusive relationship. ) And to encourage you to get off your a$$ and move.
Also highly interested hbs do this *specificly if your an handsome alpha male*
 

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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Please read the description of the forum before you post in it, thanks.

Moved to DJD.
 
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