"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help needed on girl trying to make you jealous

diego77

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what is the proper way to react when a girl you are after is blatantly trying to make you jealous flirting with other men in front of you? Also what does it mean and why tehy act this way.? Thanks for input.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Remain unphased. It's a cry for attention, give it to her on your terms.
 

defiancy

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don't allow yourself to be affected...simple as that. This is the tips section by the way
 

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Questions do not belong in the tips forum.
 

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what is the proper way to react when a girl you are after is blatantly trying to make you jealous flirting with other men in front of you?
If she is your girlfriend...then it is obvious you didnt talk to her about respect. So the best solution is to talk to her or dump her.

If she is just a girl that likes you and you like her...well, what are you waiting for?


And somebody is right...this is NOT a question page. This is a tips place.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonMEgaHoss

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One. Wrong Forum.

Two. She's an attention ho. Just looking to play with guys to boost their egos; Shows you alittle affection to none. Then alot or some when they want something from you.

Three: She's testing your jealousy factor (probably testing for LTR or exclusive relationship. ) And to encourage you to get off your a$$ and move.
Also highly interested hbs do this *specificly if your an handsome alpha male*
 

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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Please read the description of the forum before you post in it, thanks.

Moved to DJD.
 
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