"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Help needed on girl trying to make you jealous
- Thread starter diego77
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
If she is your girlfriend...then it is obvious you didnt talk to her about respect. So the best solution is to talk to her or dump her.what is the proper way to react when a girl you are after is blatantly trying to make you jealous flirting with other men in front of you?
If she is just a girl that likes you and you like her...well, what are you waiting for?
And somebody is right...this is NOT a question page. This is a tips place.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Two. She's an attention ho. Just looking to play with guys to boost their egos; Shows you alittle affection to none. Then alot or some when they want something from you.
Three: She's testing your jealousy factor (probably testing for LTR or exclusive relationship. ) And to encourage you to get off your a$$ and move.
Also highly interested hbs do this *specificly if your an handsome alpha male*
diablo
Master Don Juan
Moved to DJD.