"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Help needed on girl trying to make you jealous
- Thread starter diego77
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
If she is your girlfriend...then it is obvious you didnt talk to her about respect. So the best solution is to talk to her or dump her.what is the proper way to react when a girl you are after is blatantly trying to make you jealous flirting with other men in front of you?
If she is just a girl that likes you and you like her...well, what are you waiting for?
And somebody is right...this is NOT a question page. This is a tips place.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Two. She's an attention ho. Just looking to play with guys to boost their egos; Shows you alittle affection to none. Then alot or some when they want something from you.
Three: She's testing your jealousy factor (probably testing for LTR or exclusive relationship. ) And to encourage you to get off your a$$ and move.
Also highly interested hbs do this *specificly if your an handsome alpha male*
diablo
Master Don Juan
Moved to DJD.