L777
Master Don Juan
This is annoying me now, I can do 3x8 hammer curls with 15kg dumbells, but can do about 2 proper ones with 17s....whats the best way to increase, cos I've been stuck for the past 3 workouts!!
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You should have that as a signature.Teflon_Mcgee said:Also remember, in the gym you can only cheat yourself.
there is nothing 'official' about them. you are still doing half the lift and you are not strong enough to curl up the weight from the absolute bottom, period.L777 said:You should have that as a signature.
Cheers for the advice man, never knew about official 'cheat' reps.
Warboss Alex said:there is nothing 'official' about them. you are still doing half the lift and you are not strong enough to curl up the weight from the absolute bottom, period.
to me, it's like a deadlift off the floor.. getting the bar off the floor is the hard part, so many people 'tap' or even bounce the bar off the floor on subsequent reps. it's the same principle here. will you be moving more weight? yes. will you get a growth response? yes. will you have as good a growth response as if you'd done it strictly? no way.
this is why I say lean against the wall when you do curls. no room for cheating.
Well, exactly.. you lean back against the wall SO that you can develop good form, and learn to curl without assistance. This way you learn to actually use the arm muscles more, so if in future you curl without the wall, it will be second nature to you.Teflon_Mcgee said:I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this one.
Granted, I'm not saying use cheat reps on every set or everyworkout. But as a supplemental in your tool bag they can come in handy.
Also I have to disagre with you about standing on the wall. It's much better to develop good form while standing without support. This has been studied numerous times to show that stnading curls and shoulder presses produce better growth potential due to the increase in total muscle usage.
Much like the idea behind compound lifts.
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Try some pull-ups & chin-ups 2-3times a week. You'll grow some solid back & arms.L777 said:This is annoying me now, I can do 3x8 hammer curls with 15kg dumbells, but can do about 2 proper ones with 17s....whats the best way to increase, cos I've been stuck for the past 3 workouts!!
Arnold used steroids, do you?Deus ex Pianoforte said:If I may just add something here, I hate to go against you Warboss considering you know way more about bodybuilding than I do, but cheat curls were one of Arnold's favorite exercises: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/xrep5.htm.
do Arnold's whole routine while you're at it!Deus ex Pianoforte said:If I may just add something here, I hate to go against you Warboss considering you know way more about bodybuilding than I do, but cheat curls were one of Arnold's favorite exercises: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/xrep5.htm.