L777
Master Don Juan
This is annoying me now, I can do 3x8 hammer curls with 15kg dumbells, but can do about 2 proper ones with 17s....whats the best way to increase, cos I've been stuck for the past 3 workouts!!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You should have that as a signature.Teflon_Mcgee said:Also remember, in the gym you can only cheat yourself.
there is nothing 'official' about them. you are still doing half the lift and you are not strong enough to curl up the weight from the absolute bottom, period.L777 said:You should have that as a signature.
Cheers for the advice man, never knew about official 'cheat' reps.
Warboss Alex said:there is nothing 'official' about them. you are still doing half the lift and you are not strong enough to curl up the weight from the absolute bottom, period.
to me, it's like a deadlift off the floor.. getting the bar off the floor is the hard part, so many people 'tap' or even bounce the bar off the floor on subsequent reps. it's the same principle here. will you be moving more weight? yes. will you get a growth response? yes. will you have as good a growth response as if you'd done it strictly? no way.
this is why I say lean against the wall when you do curls. no room for cheating.
Well, exactly.. you lean back against the wall SO that you can develop good form, and learn to curl without assistance. This way you learn to actually use the arm muscles more, so if in future you curl without the wall, it will be second nature to you.Teflon_Mcgee said:I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this one.
Granted, I'm not saying use cheat reps on every set or everyworkout. But as a supplemental in your tool bag they can come in handy.
Also I have to disagre with you about standing on the wall. It's much better to develop good form while standing without support. This has been studied numerous times to show that stnading curls and shoulder presses produce better growth potential due to the increase in total muscle usage.
Much like the idea behind compound lifts.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Try some pull-ups & chin-ups 2-3times a week. You'll grow some solid back & arms.L777 said:This is annoying me now, I can do 3x8 hammer curls with 15kg dumbells, but can do about 2 proper ones with 17s....whats the best way to increase, cos I've been stuck for the past 3 workouts!!
Arnold used steroids, do you?Deus ex Pianoforte said:If I may just add something here, I hate to go against you Warboss considering you know way more about bodybuilding than I do, but cheat curls were one of Arnold's favorite exercises: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/xrep5.htm.
do Arnold's whole routine while you're at it!Deus ex Pianoforte said:If I may just add something here, I hate to go against you Warboss considering you know way more about bodybuilding than I do, but cheat curls were one of Arnold's favorite exercises: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/xrep5.htm.