Please help me understand the female psychology behind this. When i meet girls and we bang for a while , it almost always gets kinky, and fetishes come out as they get more relaxed. Thats all well and good but why do they always, always always comment .." You thought i was Vanilla when we met didn't you???..you thought I was innocent!! " I don't get it , happened several times. As a side note to this , what is the correct response to maintain a solid alpha frame ?? thanks
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Help me understand!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Ignore the sh*t out of it. Don't feed her bullsh*t curiosity about how you see her. She wants to know your opinion of her and whether you do that kinda stuff with other women.
gravityeyelids
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You're already having kinky sex with this girl, your response to such a minor question isn't going to impact anything in terms of your frame. Your frame should come from the fact that you're already sleeping with this girl - you really shouldn't even care about this question or your response to it. It's harmless and they're probably just grateful that you escalated and she gets to have kinky sex with a guy that will push for it. Just frame it as an IOI, because it probably is.
Just tell her that all women are sexual beings and even if she looks innocent, you know that she likes to be kinky just like most girls. Tell her you knew she had a wild side that you wanted to unleash.
Just tell her that all women are sexual beings and even if she looks innocent, you know that she likes to be kinky just like most girls. Tell her you knew she had a wild side that you wanted to unleash.