Help me Slide In This Girl’s DMs

[nicksaiz65]

So I met this girl at a party last week. I know she was feeling me, she was feeling up my chest and everything.

So I slid in her Instagram DMs. She does hair, and I liked about 6 of her pictures. I was like “I see you with the locks!” She had done locks on someone’s hair.

She just responded “lol thank you.” What do I say? How do I transition into getting her Snapchat from there? What on Earth do I say lol?

And for the record, my social proof on Instagram is much higher than hers

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

**** pic ftw!

 

[marmel75]

Seriously? This isnt how it works bro.

You cant just take no action when you have the chance and then go social media stalker.

There is no way we can help you with this. You can help yourself next time by putting on your big boy pants and taking action to make something happen

 

[nicksaiz65]

Seriously? This isnt how it works bro.

You cant just take no action when you have the chance and then go social media stalker.

There is no way we can help you with this. You can help yourself next time by putting on your big boy pants and taking action to make something happen

Yeahhhh I fvcked up lol. Always next time

 

[Spaz]

The opportunity has passed

 

[Glassguy]

I disagree with some of you.

So he didnt try to jump all over her when he saw her out the first time. She is obviously giving him another chance to at least make a move by responding back to his IG message.

Just shoot her a quick message and check her interest level. Mention something positive from your experience around her at the party and tell her that you would like to pick things back up over a drink or three.

See what happens. Be outcome indifferent and make a move. The worst case that can happen is you'll be in the same position you're in now with no date with this chick.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Skip the snapchat because I find it's a waste of time. What's the point of sharing 5,000 snaps of some girl posing with the dog filter on?

SnapC is just another way for girls to ego stroke 90% of the time.

Ask what she's doing at the weekend and for her number. Make very brief small talk first.

I've had girls add me on snapchat because "they like me" only for them to delete me after a couple of sentences of conversation. Add a girl on there once you're already in a relationship and you can use it to flirt.

 

[AbaGanov]

first of all - stop liking her insta photos like some kind of stalker.

tell her to come grab a drink with you and keep it brief.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Skip the snapchat because I find it's a waste of time. What's the point of sharing 5,000 snaps of some girl posing with the dog filter on?

SnapC is just another way for girls to ego stroke 90% of the time.

Ask what she's doing at the weekend and for her number. Make very brief small talk first.

I've had girls add me on snapchat because "they like me" only for them to delete me after a couple of sentences of conversation. Add a girl on there once you're already in a relationship and you can use it to flirt.

Yeah definitely been there lmao

 

[nicksaiz65]

Hm. The reason I asked this question is cause I thought that DM Sliding was legit a thing. Heck, my friend got his girlfriend by DM Sliding.

That being said, I tried to start a small conversation and got curved lol. It’s cool, it happens.

The best solution would be to get her number right then instead of fvcking up lol.

Also, just curious, what’s y’alls opinion on using Snapchat to text people over traditional text? I’ve gotten lays that way, but I wanna see what y’all think.