Help me salvage this!

davidsonj73

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3 weeks ago I got the number of a beautiful woman I'll call C, the first letter of her first name. Today I texted her. I'll refer to myself as J.

Me: Hi C, this is J

C: lol J who? My brother?

Me: No. We met at [name of park here]. You showed me your fish keychains

Me: About 3 weeks ago

Me: J Davidson, but I don't think I told you my last name before

Me: Anyway, how are you doing?

[My intentions are to either hookup with or be in a relationship with C]

What should I say next? Any advice would be appreciated!
 

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C: lol J who? My brother?
This is either a test or Low Interest, very low interest

3 weeks ago I got the number of a beautiful woman. Today I texted her.
You waited three weeks to send her a text? That´s like a year in Hot Girl Time. She already got Pumped & Ghosted by Chad, Tyrone, and Juan Camaney since you met her.

Me: No. We met at [name of park here]. You showed me your fish keychains

Me: About 3 weeks ago

Me: J Davidson, but I don't think I told you my last name before

Me: Anyway, how are you doing?
Dont double text, dont triple text, dont send her 4 texts in a row if you havent had sex with her.

Keep improving all areas of your life and Spin More Plates until you can pull better, younger ,and hotter girls than her.
 

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If you are this anxious already...not a great sign!

You see, it started with the "playing busy" and waiting 3 weeks to text her. That shyte only works when you are 1. Sincerely busy 2. Know how to actually play that game and 3. You left such a huge impression that you KNOW she waited 3 weeks.

Best course of action is to shut up ,wait, and if she does respond to be straight to to the point ( as in setting a date)
 

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[QUOTE="davidsonj73, post: 3116626, member: 163453]

Me: No. We met at [name of park here]. You showed me your fish keychains



What should I say next? Any advice would be appreciated!
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If this park is located in the village of Imbocca, be sure to ask this chick if her name is Uxia


If she answers in the affirmative, flee from both her and Imbocca, without hesitation
 

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3 weeks ago I got the number
C: lol J who? My brother?
There is no salvaging this. You waited too long, it's likely she genuinely don't remember you.

Next time, don't wait 3 weeks. Text within 3 days tops, preferably get the ball rolling the next day or 2 days after if you just happen to not have much time the next day.

Why the hell did you not text her before 3 weeks passed?!!
 

davidsonj73

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There is no salvaging this. You waited too long, it's likely she genuinely don't remember you.

Next time, don't wait 3 weeks. Text within 3 days tops, preferably get the ball rolling the next day or 2 days after if you just happen to not have much time the next day.

Why the hell did you not text her before 3 weeks passed?!!
I know a lot of guys wait a few days to text. I apparently waited too long.
 

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I know a lot of guys wait a few days to text. I apparently waited too long.
A few DAYS, not a few WEEKS. It's the difference between swatting your toddler on the backside with an open hand, after they've run out into the street VS Stringing the poor tyke up by the wrists from a ceiling fan, and flogging them with a fan belt, for "looking at you the wrong way"

The former is inconsequential, while the latter carries with it life-altering consequences for all involved
 

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Nothing. You already sent her 4 messages in a row. Either she will respond or she won't.

Why did you wait 3 weeks to contact her? You should have texted her within 3 days. She probably doesn't even remember why she gave you her number or who you are at this point.
 

davidsonj73

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Nothing. You already sent her 4 messages in a row. Either she will respond or she won't.

Why did you wait 3 weeks to contact her? You should have texted her within 3 days. She probably doesn't even remember why she gave you her number or who you are at this point.
Ok. I messed up on this one.
 

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This experience is a prime example of following red pill orthodoxy. It’s also proof that following a formula does not work.
 

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"He came from somewhere back in her long ago"

 
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