im a natural born in a conservative society. i look attractive and kinda look like a soft guy. this is what they say. one prob guys, i cant open easily, im an introvert or shy or low in self esteem whichever u say, i cant open myself easily so how can i open others, damn it? i have girls even hit on me but i cant act on that. i stay aloof from them at first and maybe this delay lets other guys take the chance. u know this happens only when i see a HB or a group. once i start im very good at creating a vibe and connection soon follows but the opening or transition is killing me. advise me! :crazy:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Calm down and quit worrying so much. I'm willing to bet you haven't done your homework.
This is required reading for all new Don Juan's. I'm willing to bet you haven't read much if any.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
Scroll down to the bottom of the page and click on then link that says "The DJ Bible" alternatively if that doesn't work.
Good luck on your journey bro, we'll be here rooting and helping if you need it.
This is required reading for all new Don Juan's. I'm willing to bet you haven't read much if any.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
Scroll down to the bottom of the page and click on then link that says "The DJ Bible" alternatively if that doesn't work.
Good luck on your journey bro, we'll be here rooting and helping if you need it.
i got your remedy brotha. i want you to download unstoppable confidence by ross jeffries, this will help you act on all this. FOr a little inner game get david deangelo inner game dvds. the way you think is inside so changing up your software to pua/dj thinking.
p.s. take notes and do the excerises.
p.s. take notes and do the excerises.
thanks mates! i will check out the link, ya i need to change my circuitry to dj type.
do u guys think that as i m starting now, should i just focus on my body language while killing the need and stopping to look for a target for a month or so? but that would mean i wont approach anyone at all, does that sound good?
do u guys think that as i m starting now, should i just focus on my body language while killing the need and stopping to look for a target for a month or so? but that would mean i wont approach anyone at all, does that sound good?
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
No, don't stop looking for a target. What you should do is go to the other side of the spectrum. Everything is your target, make eye contact with everyone and everything, smile even if you don't have a reason smile!, talk to everyone. Yes work on your body language and YES destroy that pesky need. And remember, its all about having fun.
Have you looked at the DJ boot-camp? It should be on the other side of that link somewhere. Theirs life changing advise all over sosuave.com, absorb it all (be weary of whose advise you take on the forum). But the biggest part of success is getting away from your computer and actually DOING.
Have you looked at the DJ boot-camp? It should be on the other side of that link somewhere. Theirs life changing advise all over sosuave.com, absorb it all (be weary of whose advise you take on the forum). But the biggest part of success is getting away from your computer and actually DOING.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.