im a natural born in a conservative society. i look attractive and kinda look like a soft guy. this is what they say. one prob guys, i cant open easily, im an introvert or shy or low in self esteem whichever u say, i cant open myself easily so how can i open others, damn it? i have girls even hit on me but i cant act on that. i stay aloof from them at first and maybe this delay lets other guys take the chance. u know this happens only when i see a HB or a group. once i start im very good at creating a vibe and connection soon follows but the opening or transition is killing me. advise me! :crazy:
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Calm down and quit worrying so much. I'm willing to bet you haven't done your homework.
This is required reading for all new Don Juan's. I'm willing to bet you haven't read much if any.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
Scroll down to the bottom of the page and click on then link that says "The DJ Bible" alternatively if that doesn't work.
Good luck on your journey bro, we'll be here rooting and helping if you need it.
This is required reading for all new Don Juan's. I'm willing to bet you haven't read much if any.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
Scroll down to the bottom of the page and click on then link that says "The DJ Bible" alternatively if that doesn't work.
Good luck on your journey bro, we'll be here rooting and helping if you need it.
i got your remedy brotha. i want you to download unstoppable confidence by ross jeffries, this will help you act on all this. FOr a little inner game get david deangelo inner game dvds. the way you think is inside so changing up your software to pua/dj thinking.
p.s. take notes and do the excerises.
p.s. take notes and do the excerises.
thanks mates! i will check out the link, ya i need to change my circuitry to dj type.
do u guys think that as i m starting now, should i just focus on my body language while killing the need and stopping to look for a target for a month or so? but that would mean i wont approach anyone at all, does that sound good?
do u guys think that as i m starting now, should i just focus on my body language while killing the need and stopping to look for a target for a month or so? but that would mean i wont approach anyone at all, does that sound good?
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
No, don't stop looking for a target. What you should do is go to the other side of the spectrum. Everything is your target, make eye contact with everyone and everything, smile even if you don't have a reason smile!, talk to everyone. Yes work on your body language and YES destroy that pesky need. And remember, its all about having fun.
Have you looked at the DJ boot-camp? It should be on the other side of that link somewhere. Theirs life changing advise all over sosuave.com, absorb it all (be weary of whose advise you take on the forum). But the biggest part of success is getting away from your computer and actually DOING.
Have you looked at the DJ boot-camp? It should be on the other side of that link somewhere. Theirs life changing advise all over sosuave.com, absorb it all (be weary of whose advise you take on the forum). But the biggest part of success is getting away from your computer and actually DOING.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.