im a natural born in a conservative society. i look attractive and kinda look like a soft guy. this is what they say. one prob guys, i cant open easily, im an introvert or shy or low in self esteem whichever u say, i cant open myself easily so how can i open others, damn it? i have girls even hit on me but i cant act on that. i stay aloof from them at first and maybe this delay lets other guys take the chance. u know this happens only when i see a HB or a group. once i start im very good at creating a vibe and connection soon follows but the opening or transition is killing me. advise me! :crazy:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Calm down and quit worrying so much. I'm willing to bet you haven't done your homework.
This is required reading for all new Don Juan's. I'm willing to bet you haven't read much if any.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
Scroll down to the bottom of the page and click on then link that says "The DJ Bible" alternatively if that doesn't work.
Good luck on your journey bro, we'll be here rooting and helping if you need it.
This is required reading for all new Don Juan's. I'm willing to bet you haven't read much if any.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
Scroll down to the bottom of the page and click on then link that says "The DJ Bible" alternatively if that doesn't work.
Good luck on your journey bro, we'll be here rooting and helping if you need it.
i got your remedy brotha. i want you to download unstoppable confidence by ross jeffries, this will help you act on all this. FOr a little inner game get david deangelo inner game dvds. the way you think is inside so changing up your software to pua/dj thinking.
p.s. take notes and do the excerises.
p.s. take notes and do the excerises.
thanks mates! i will check out the link, ya i need to change my circuitry to dj type.
do u guys think that as i m starting now, should i just focus on my body language while killing the need and stopping to look for a target for a month or so? but that would mean i wont approach anyone at all, does that sound good?
do u guys think that as i m starting now, should i just focus on my body language while killing the need and stopping to look for a target for a month or so? but that would mean i wont approach anyone at all, does that sound good?
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
No, don't stop looking for a target. What you should do is go to the other side of the spectrum. Everything is your target, make eye contact with everyone and everything, smile even if you don't have a reason smile!, talk to everyone. Yes work on your body language and YES destroy that pesky need. And remember, its all about having fun.
Have you looked at the DJ boot-camp? It should be on the other side of that link somewhere. Theirs life changing advise all over sosuave.com, absorb it all (be weary of whose advise you take on the forum). But the biggest part of success is getting away from your computer and actually DOING.
Have you looked at the DJ boot-camp? It should be on the other side of that link somewhere. Theirs life changing advise all over sosuave.com, absorb it all (be weary of whose advise you take on the forum). But the biggest part of success is getting away from your computer and actually DOING.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.