"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help me not !@#$ this one up

mcpwn

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txting

me: lol do u have facebook
her: i don thave one lmao im the only perosn on the planet
me: (I call her she doesnt pickup)
me: do you have aim /msn/yahoo
her : aim.. **** but im hardly ever on not really a computer person
me: but u seem to like txt ?!? lol are u shy?
her: lol no i just didnt pickup cuz im watching american idol finalz
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I dunno dude. Sounds like you havent even really started anything with her yet. Do you know her? lol
I would try to meet her in person and have fun w/ her
Email, txt, and chat are ok to get some basics but if you are trying to get with this girl just try to meet up with her and do something. And dont worry about Idol....most women love this sh!t and they wont answer their phones or get on the computer during these types of shows. Your girl isnt the only one. Good luck and go get 'er!
 

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Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.
 

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Vice said:
Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.

thank you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vice said:
Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.
I second that motion.
 

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i'd say..dont text or use msn and especially not facebook..just call her and talk to her thats the best way and the most impact
 

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carlitos said:
i'd say..dont text or use msn and especially not facebook..just call her and talk to her thats the best way and the most impact
i hate all that as well but i screwed up today cuz i wanted to find out if she was single without directly asking lol cuz she has a twin that seemed more interested than her but she stopped going to the gym


i sent her vice's msg that , no response



i see her in the gym mondays and wednesdays

i went a little AFC today , didnt go out last week gaaah
 

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maybe use this next time i see her,

“Listen, I’m sorry for being out of touch, I’ve been very, very busy. But I’m available now… (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) …but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!”

and then asking her if she has a bf

I was just watching Wayne Elise "Juggler" and I just have to say he is the man. lol i did his method one day w/o even knowing it and it worked, just been missing some of the SOI's n stuff damn now i have to learn this
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mcpwn said:
maybe use this next time i see her,

“Listen, I’m sorry for being out of touch, I’ve been very, very busy. But I’m available now… (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) …but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!”

and then asking her if she has a bf

I was just watching Wayne Elise "Juggler" and I just have to say he is the man. lol i did his method one day w/o even knowing it and it worked, just been missing some of the SOI's n stuff damn now i have to learn this

Isn't that a David DeAngelo line??
 

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or maybe i should jsut talk about her legs and not do any c+f grrr


or ""I know u got the hots for me but you can't follow me around!""
 
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