"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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txting

me: lol do u have facebook
her: i don thave one lmao im the only perosn on the planet
me: (I call her she doesnt pickup)
me: do you have aim /msn/yahoo
her : aim.. **** but im hardly ever on not really a computer person
me: but u seem to like txt ?!? lol are u shy?
her: lol no i just didnt pickup cuz im watching american idol finalz
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I dunno dude. Sounds like you havent even really started anything with her yet. Do you know her? lol
I would try to meet her in person and have fun w/ her
Email, txt, and chat are ok to get some basics but if you are trying to get with this girl just try to meet up with her and do something. And dont worry about Idol....most women love this sh!t and they wont answer their phones or get on the computer during these types of shows. Your girl isnt the only one. Good luck and go get 'er!
 

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Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.
 

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Vice said:
Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.

thank you
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Vice said:
Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.
I second that motion.
 

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i'd say..dont text or use msn and especially not facebook..just call her and talk to her thats the best way and the most impact
 

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carlitos said:
i'd say..dont text or use msn and especially not facebook..just call her and talk to her thats the best way and the most impact
i hate all that as well but i screwed up today cuz i wanted to find out if she was single without directly asking lol cuz she has a twin that seemed more interested than her but she stopped going to the gym


i sent her vice's msg that , no response



i see her in the gym mondays and wednesdays

i went a little AFC today , didnt go out last week gaaah
 

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maybe use this next time i see her,

“Listen, I’m sorry for being out of touch, I’ve been very, very busy. But I’m available now… (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) …but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!”

and then asking her if she has a bf

I was just watching Wayne Elise "Juggler" and I just have to say he is the man. lol i did his method one day w/o even knowing it and it worked, just been missing some of the SOI's n stuff damn now i have to learn this
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mcpwn said:
maybe use this next time i see her,

“Listen, I’m sorry for being out of touch, I’ve been very, very busy. But I’m available now… (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) …but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!”

and then asking her if she has a bf

I was just watching Wayne Elise "Juggler" and I just have to say he is the man. lol i did his method one day w/o even knowing it and it worked, just been missing some of the SOI's n stuff damn now i have to learn this

Isn't that a David DeAngelo line??
 

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or maybe i should jsut talk about her legs and not do any c+f grrr


or ""I know u got the hots for me but you can't follow me around!""
 
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