"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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txting

me: lol do u have facebook
her: i don thave one lmao im the only perosn on the planet
me: (I call her she doesnt pickup)
me: do you have aim /msn/yahoo
her : aim.. **** but im hardly ever on not really a computer person
me: but u seem to like txt ?!? lol are u shy?
her: lol no i just didnt pickup cuz im watching american idol finalz
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I dunno dude. Sounds like you havent even really started anything with her yet. Do you know her? lol
I would try to meet her in person and have fun w/ her
Email, txt, and chat are ok to get some basics but if you are trying to get with this girl just try to meet up with her and do something. And dont worry about Idol....most women love this sh!t and they wont answer their phones or get on the computer during these types of shows. Your girl isnt the only one. Good luck and go get 'er!
 

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Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.
 

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Vice said:
Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.

thank you
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vice said:
Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.
I second that motion.
 

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i'd say..dont text or use msn and especially not facebook..just call her and talk to her thats the best way and the most impact
 

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carlitos said:
i'd say..dont text or use msn and especially not facebook..just call her and talk to her thats the best way and the most impact
i hate all that as well but i screwed up today cuz i wanted to find out if she was single without directly asking lol cuz she has a twin that seemed more interested than her but she stopped going to the gym


i sent her vice's msg that , no response



i see her in the gym mondays and wednesdays

i went a little AFC today , didnt go out last week gaaah
 

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maybe use this next time i see her,

“Listen, I’m sorry for being out of touch, I’ve been very, very busy. But I’m available now… (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) …but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!”

and then asking her if she has a bf

I was just watching Wayne Elise "Juggler" and I just have to say he is the man. lol i did his method one day w/o even knowing it and it worked, just been missing some of the SOI's n stuff damn now i have to learn this
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mcpwn said:
maybe use this next time i see her,

“Listen, I’m sorry for being out of touch, I’ve been very, very busy. But I’m available now… (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) …but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!”

and then asking her if she has a bf

I was just watching Wayne Elise "Juggler" and I just have to say he is the man. lol i did his method one day w/o even knowing it and it worked, just been missing some of the SOI's n stuff damn now i have to learn this

Isn't that a David DeAngelo line??
 

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or maybe i should jsut talk about her legs and not do any c+f grrr


or ""I know u got the hots for me but you can't follow me around!""
 
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