"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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txting

me: lol do u have facebook
her: i don thave one lmao im the only perosn on the planet
me: (I call her she doesnt pickup)
me: do you have aim /msn/yahoo
her : aim.. **** but im hardly ever on not really a computer person
me: but u seem to like txt ?!? lol are u shy?
her: lol no i just didnt pickup cuz im watching american idol finalz
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I dunno dude. Sounds like you havent even really started anything with her yet. Do you know her? lol
I would try to meet her in person and have fun w/ her
Email, txt, and chat are ok to get some basics but if you are trying to get with this girl just try to meet up with her and do something. And dont worry about Idol....most women love this sh!t and they wont answer their phones or get on the computer during these types of shows. Your girl isnt the only one. Good luck and go get 'er!
 

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Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.
 

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Vice said:
Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.

thank you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vice said:
Sounds like she's blowing you off.
What I would do is write "well you sound like you're busy, enjoy your show".
then ignore her for a few days and CALL her after the weekend.
I second that motion.
 

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i'd say..dont text or use msn and especially not facebook..just call her and talk to her thats the best way and the most impact
 

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carlitos said:
i'd say..dont text or use msn and especially not facebook..just call her and talk to her thats the best way and the most impact
i hate all that as well but i screwed up today cuz i wanted to find out if she was single without directly asking lol cuz she has a twin that seemed more interested than her but she stopped going to the gym


i sent her vice's msg that , no response



i see her in the gym mondays and wednesdays

i went a little AFC today , didnt go out last week gaaah
 

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maybe use this next time i see her,

“Listen, I’m sorry for being out of touch, I’ve been very, very busy. But I’m available now… (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) …but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!”

and then asking her if she has a bf

I was just watching Wayne Elise "Juggler" and I just have to say he is the man. lol i did his method one day w/o even knowing it and it worked, just been missing some of the SOI's n stuff damn now i have to learn this
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mcpwn said:
maybe use this next time i see her,

“Listen, I’m sorry for being out of touch, I’ve been very, very busy. But I’m available now… (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) …but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!”

and then asking her if she has a bf

I was just watching Wayne Elise "Juggler" and I just have to say he is the man. lol i did his method one day w/o even knowing it and it worked, just been missing some of the SOI's n stuff damn now i have to learn this

Isn't that a David DeAngelo line??
 

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or maybe i should jsut talk about her legs and not do any c+f grrr


or ""I know u got the hots for me but you can't follow me around!""
 
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