European-DJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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- Thread starter European-DJ
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mate are you serious?
From that first pic, I'm not gay or anything, but you seem like a good looking lad. Much better than I am, in terms of genetic looks.
If you're having problems with women, it must be an inner game issue.
Looks are always a factor of course, but in the end it is ultimately decided by other factors.
Keep working on those.
From that first pic, I'm not gay or anything, but you seem like a good looking lad. Much better than I am, in terms of genetic looks.
If you're having problems with women, it must be an inner game issue.
Looks are always a factor of course, but in the end it is ultimately decided by other factors.
Keep working on those.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
I have an HUGE issue with my height .. i know i can do nothing about it, but it is killing me.runner83 said:
I am 5 Feet 7', and compared to other Montenegrians (The averege girl in my city is like 5 feet 8'), i am VERY short... Therein lies my problem.
And ofc. inner game is something i lack a Lot, i have been working on this for a long time - but not getting anywere ... any articles on this?
custardpie
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I'm suspicious.
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
There was a time, where i took myself As good looking, but my question was more in regards of style, clothes, haircut and stuff.custardpie said:I'm suspicious.
You're obviously an above average looking guy and I'm sure you know this.
Why did you make this thread? To stroke your ego?
Yes mate you're very good looking, you deserve to get all the girls you want and I wish I looked like you! Feel better now?
If your issue really is with your height then wtf good is a picture of just your torso?
There is nothing you can do about your height anyway, apart from wearing boots with big soles.
I'm 5ft 7 myself and I never really view myself as short. I just see others taller than me as lanky streaks of p1ss lol
- atm girls are ignoring mé and stuff, that is why i had to make a topic Luke this
I am planning to remove the pictures within some hours
!
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Asking for advice on a website full of men. You mad bro?
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Style is fine. Clothes are fine. Haircut is fine.European-DJ said:There was a time, where i took myself As good looking, but my question was more in regards of style, clothes, haircut and stuff.
- atm girls are ignoring mé and stuff, that is why i had to make a topic Luke this
I am planning to remove the pictures within some hours
You're dressed a bit more metrosexual than I could dress. But it works for you. My style probably wouldn't work for you.
Are girls "ignoring" you, or are you not actively pursuing them? There's a difference between trying to talk to women and being ignored...or sitting on your butt, doing nothing, and getting mad because girls aren't approaching you. You can't expect women to do the work for you. We're the ones with testosterone, so we're the ones who have to be brave enough to pursue.
Mike32ct
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The first pic is great. Your face looks little like a younger Enrique Iglesias. At the risk of sounding homo or creepy, you're a very good looking dude. You also have great fashion/style in that pic.
The second pic is also good to show your athletic side. I like that one too.
With all due respect, I'm not thilled with the third pic.
Are those Wayfarer sunglasses in the last pic? Please put those away. While I understand the "retro" thing, they aren't working for you. They add a nerdy touch to your otherwise good looking appearance. Is that sport coat leather? If so, I would put that away too. I've yet to see anyone pull off a leather sport coat successfully. (I put mine away too.) If it's the same sport coat as picture 1 (which is great), or made of any non-leather material (wool, cotton, velvet, etc.) then it's fine.
The second pic is also good to show your athletic side. I like that one too.
With all due respect, I'm not thilled with the third pic.
Are those Wayfarer sunglasses in the last pic? Please put those away. While I understand the "retro" thing, they aren't working for you. They add a nerdy touch to your otherwise good looking appearance. Is that sport coat leather? If so, I would put that away too. I've yet to see anyone pull off a leather sport coat successfully. (I put mine away too.) If it's the same sport coat as picture 1 (which is great), or made of any non-leather material (wool, cotton, velvet, etc.) then it's fine.
Mike32ct
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Definitely keep the stubble (5 o'clock shadow / light beard), whatever you want to call it. That works for you big time. It's especially evident in picture number one. Without it, you risk looking innocent and nice guy.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
To all 3;
I am approaching girls, but ½ year ago, i could approach almost any girl, and get a convo going where she would show IOI's .. perhaps i am getting desperate, but now i am not capable of doing that with a HB5..
Mike32ct;
Yeah, i think that the beard is doing it too - not too much, but definatly not without it!
thanks for the response guys!
I am approaching girls, but ½ year ago, i could approach almost any girl, and get a convo going where she would show IOI's .. perhaps i am getting desperate, but now i am not capable of doing that with a HB5..
Mike32ct;
Yeah, i think that the beard is doing it too - not too much, but definatly not without it!
thanks for the response guys!